When should you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you have asperger's?

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  • Didn't see Twilight, so I'm not quite sure what you mean. I don't hate it because everybody else does, it's just that both the Fantasy and the Romance genre don't appeal to me.

    Shouldn't I say it in person, rather than over the phone? If I'm going to trust her with something that's so huge in my life, I should do it in person.

    But... I'm scared that if I tell her, I'll just get pity in return. I don't want that. I want to be someone she can count on, not some emotionally unstable wreck.

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    • Then say it in person, your choice, but timing is key, dude. Sneak it into a conversation or something. But you might get pity in return... specially if your situation sounds pitiful.

      I wouldn't be in a hurry to do it, wait for your relationship to become a bit more concrete and for you two to get to know each other.

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