I agree with you for the most part, but I'm not sure if I want to use this as an excuse. I mean, it's very comfortable to say "hey babe, sorry I treated you like crap, but I can't help it. Asperger's." I don't want to become one of these guys who uses his diagnosis to get away with stuff.
But, I completely agree with you for the rest of your comment.
When should you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you have asperger's?
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There's no need to bring it up.
If the person states that they are dissatisfied with your behaviour in some way, then you can use it as a legitimate excuse.
If you're not sure when the "right time" is, wait for your partner to bring up a relevant topic. Don't make a big deal out of it yourself.
Personally, I don't think it would make a difference in how I feel about the person, so they should tell me whenever they're comfortable to do so.
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I agree with you for the most part, but I'm not sure if I want to use this as an excuse. I mean, it's very comfortable to say "hey babe, sorry I treated you like crap, but I can't help it. Asperger's." I don't want to become one of these guys who uses his diagnosis to get away with stuff.
But, I completely agree with you for the rest of your comment.