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Well i have fairly low self-esteem so whenever someone flirts with me i think of all the worst before i realize gee maybe this guy likes me. anyways everytime someone like me i kinda become a "female dog" to them and i sort of push them away. I never noticed it until i did it to someone i really liked. It's not that i don't want a relationship or anything so is it normal?
Clearly if you have guys hitting on you in the first place you must be reasonably attractive, so maybe its time to try to get over the low self esteem issues, because you're not only hurting the guys your being a "female dog" to, you're also hurting yourself. Try some affirmations, or looking yourself in the mirror and picking a few things you like about yourself. :)
I know what you mean. Sometimes you just don't know what you have until you lose it. Sometimes I look back o my relationships and wish I had been different, either slightly stricter and more in control or less strict and moany. I have managed to be angels to the guys that treat me bad and devils to the ones that have treated me the best.
You are afraid of getting hurt and you are protecting you feelings, which is normal. Try to analyse the person you are with and see if yo can imagine them in your future and ask yourself if he is treating you right, because the right men are so rare. Perhaps if you are open in your relationships you might find it easier to express yourself as you know that they know what you are feeling.
I hope this makes sense. It is hard realising that what you had was great after you have lost it.
when i meet a guy im usually first attracted to him, & if things start of really well its great and i am happy. but once i say i like him sometimes the guy seems like he likes me to much, and then i push them away. i dont mean to do it and i dont realize i do it till its to late. now i just naturally do it when i first talk to a guy im usually rude. id say your normal otherwise im not normal either haha.