When does no from a woman to sex mean yes

I slept with a woman who told me no to my sexual advances when it was obvious to me that she wanted sex.
It has happened to me before when a woman said no and was surprised when I stopped!
I was sure that it was the same but the next day she acted like I raped her. There was minimal physical persuasion, no restraint and the enjoyment of the sex was mutual, I'm sure of it. So, when with women,does no mean yes?

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  • This is why no matter what, when a woman, could also be a man, says no then stop.

    Some people play hard to get but don't play that game if they say no, you put yourself at risk.

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  • Always assume no means no or you'll end up hurting someone or getting in legal trouble that is some really serious shit. If she really wants it she will eventually say yes, so be patient and let her come to you.

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  • No means no. Stop until they say yes no matter what

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  • No means no, It could happen that she says no and means yes but why take the chance? Also she could easily frame you for rape.

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  • Communication is mostly body language, tone of voice, etc. Especially so in emotional situations.
    You have to really listen hard for the word no amongst all the yessing.

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  • Oh yea and was wondering how was it obvious that she wanted sex?

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  • Yea they don't have to do anything but say no, I mean what do you expect her to try and bash you or pull a knife to make the point clear?

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  • Dump the crazy bitch you're with. No always means no and if she's playing games with that, you should run from her as fast as possible and never look back.

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