When did you lose your virginity?

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  • dam...and here i thought losing mine two weeks ago at 21 was bad. You kids are screwing at 14? God save us.

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  • I am still a virgin, and Ive been with my boyfriend for seven months:) We are waiting. (Im 16 yrs old, and he turns 16 on April 2...we are exactly a month apart)I dont want my parents to feel like they cant trust me. And plus, if you really think that the guy or girl you are with is "the one", then why rush it? If he/she is really the one, then they will be there still when you are at more of an appropriate age to have sex. Remaining abstinent has nothing to do with being prude. And we dont need anymore pregnant teens, aborted babies, or kids in foster homes in this world anymore. Teenagers are to irresponsible to handle sex. (for the most part)

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    • 2 years past, are you still a virgin? are you still with him? are you still so happy? I hope so . good luck

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    • Nice sensible reply apart from one thing. I can assure you that this guy you are seeing isn't 'the one'.

      The chances of him being the one are about 0.000000000025 %

      just thought id break it to ya.

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  • im still a virgin waiting for marriage :D

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    • Ahhhh sucks 4 u

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      • not really i really want to save myself for the perfect person :D

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        • Why would you wanna save some blood for the true one?
          To me, virginity isn't something physical. You will know in your heart when you truly make LOVE for the first time.

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          • like I said I'm asexual so i could possibly never have sex and that doesnt bother me because I'm not reall interested in it i dont feel the physical want for it but if my future partner when im married isnt also asexual I'll have sex for their benefit but for me im more interested in emotional bonds than physical because that is just how asexuals are

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          • virginity is psychological, deary, when you're not ready, you get destroyed

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            • Aren't anti fornication laws a religious matter too.

              Does no one stay a virgin due to their faith anymore?

              -Honest question-

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        • good for you must be nice to have your first with the one you love.
          but what if you bouth realy suck at it??

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          • then we will learn to get better ;) plus i dont really plan on marrying for the sex im asexual so im not that intrested in sex to begin with >.>

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            • good to find some pure peole around, standards are so bad where I live: if someone hasen't done it by the time they turn 17 people look and them like they are retarded or something. i think it's so stupid and sad that people are so shallow.
              btw have fun on your wedding night ;P

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  • I was 16. But I wish I saved myself...my love didn't last long with my first guy

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  • still havent and im 17

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  • I'm saving mine till I meet 'the one' so to say, and I have met her, just long distance relationships are slow as hell.

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  • When I met your Mom

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  • i think both sex and virginity are over-stigmatized. If a person has sex when they're 12, good for him/her. That individual clearly weren't being "pressured by society" or whatnot. If a person is a 26-year-old with healthy libido is still a virgin because s/he just haven't been in the right situation, that's fine, too. So long as people use the proper precautions, it's society manipulating sexuality, not the sex itself, that is an issue worth debate.

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    • I'm struggling how you surmise that a person who has sex at 12 as you put it: aint "being pressured by society" ?!?

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  • im still a virgin ((: waiting to meet the right Guy !

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  • Still a virgin and proud :)

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  • 64

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  • still a virgin in i dont care what people think but this dude at my church did touch my junk so i knock him the f out try touching me again punk

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  • Lot's of Virgins could this be a product of this internet society? Or Population control? I am 23 virgin

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    • It is becuase the poeple who come to the internet are rejects or not whorey or stupid enough for scociety so we come to these thing were we could say what ever we damn well please .

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  • im still a virgin :(

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  • 25 and still virgin..waiting till my marriage

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  • I'm waiting until marriage.

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  • I was 16, it was a couple of weeks away from christmas and I was in my long-term bf's room at his parents house wrapping christmas gifts for my family and his, and gifts we had got for each other, and his moms dog, a dachsound came in and laid on the bed, Snoopy was notorious for bad gas and his moms stuffing gave insides a hell of a time, when Jeff went to the bathroom, I ripped ass madly in the room, it was really quite audible and the dog looked nervous LoL, anyways. Jeff came back sooner than I expected and when he walked through the door, he smelled the room and gave us, both me and Snoop a disgusted face LoL, I lied though...I flippin told Jeff "Ew, your dog jumped on the bed and totally shit himself, he might need to be put out" and so Jeff put Snoopy out and when he came back I was sitting on the bed enjoying one of those holiday time candles that smell like pine and some like peppermint, he came over to the bed and sat next to me, before we both knew anything, we were having sex, all over the scotch tape, the scissors, (thank god those didnt do any damage LoL) and wrapping paper & bows it was awesome, but it hurt, so I asked him to stop, he smiled and told me sure, he slowly exited me and gave me a kiss and then spooned with me on the bed, to let me know it was o.k, and this was all with the bedroom door unlocked, yikes :)) wow..I shared a lot of info, then again, look up at ole` Heironsincere up there, jeeeze. LoL :)

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  • Stop being ashamed of your self-control! Its time we take back the power and stop letting the media send out this fucked up messages.

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  • Still a virgin at 20, never had a boyfriend...which some days seems really depressing

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  • 2-24-11 from 01:30 to 02:10 I was 24 only 64 days shy of my 25th birthday

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  • Waiting until marriage is the best option. It assures you want to have a baby with someone you truly love.

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    • this implies that you will only ever "love" and marry one person. statistical data would beg to differ...

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    • not true...I know a lot of people who had a baby with their spouse and then they divorced.

      however, there's nothing wrong with waiting. i waited till i knew the person i was with was meant to be. don't ask me how i knew, i don't really know. We did end up married and still happily together :)

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  • 9 me and my elementry school girlfriend were playing "doctor"

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  • I was 14, yeah AMERICA FUCK YEAH....the only place where you can have sex as a kid and be COOL, FUCK YEAH!!! Sluts lol....

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  • 11 with my cousin. she said we're playing a soap opera >.>

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  • I lost my virginity at 9

    PM, eastern time ;)

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  • 16, with a long term female parnter. I think that its good to wait for someone you care about but more than a little outdated to wait for marriage.

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  • our maid was responsible for losing my virginity when i was 16 ,she was always showing awesome cleavage that made me hot and i often masturbated in my room as she was cleaning lobby floor , once i was caught and she demanded money from me or else she would told my mother and the rest of the story started with money and ended with money

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  • 14, with another girl.

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  • dont know when i lose my virginity.. i have sex w/ my cat when i was sleeping. :)

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  • I was 13. It was 2 days after my birthday. She was 8 months older and she already had sex once with one of her x's. I don't regret it, it was an amazing time and memories for me. The first was very awkward though.

    ***BUT***

    Now that I'm older and look back I realize how fucking stupid we both were. Even though we almost always used a condom I never gave much thought to how much life would have sucked if she DID get pregnant. We talked about it after the first time and both had the dumbass 13-year old logic and attitude of "well if it happens she'll get an abortion." Really? So stupid.

    If any kid out there under 16 is reading this and thinking about full out sex DONT DO IT! The consequences of getting pregnant and the effects mentally it can have on both her and you (or him and you if your a girl reading this) just isn't worth it no matter how amazing it might be. Do other stuff if you have too to release the pent up desires - there's lots you can do - just keep the pole out of the hole until you're an adult with a good stable job and can truly understand and accept the consequences.

    And if you were like I was - stupid and not thinking - at least ALWAYS use a condom. No condom? Then Mr. wanna-poke-her-alot needs to stay away from the beaver hole and behind the zipper. Remember, there is NO method - not pulling out before cumming, not standing on her head, not jumping up and down,NOTHING other than abstinence that can guarantee she won't get pregnant.

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  • If you're still a virgin I'd like to hear your story check out my profile for my contact info

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  • I was 2 months shy of my 18th bday.

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  • how the hell can you kids be happy at losing your virginty so young?? you're disgusting.

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    • @very_curious

      Disgusting? That's a bit far.
      I admit there are extremes, but everyone is different and todays society is generally more accepting, so take a lesson from it you frigid, old cow.

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  • I lost mine on my 16th birthday (:

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  • I lost my virginity to...my father...he raped me while i was asleep........im 18 and i can never trust a man again......i think.....come answer my questions at my page...........

    ...

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    • this seems fake, who wants to have discussions about painful memories involving molestion on a public profile page, please don't make a mockery out of sexual molestion, especially incest.

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  • I waited until marraige, but then again I got married at 5, so I guess I lost my virginity at around 6.

    jk

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  • lost it at 30. I don't regret it. Sex is awesome.

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  • I lost it to a sandwich. Not sure when so I just keep doing it and hope that I'll remember.

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  • I'm starting my senior year of high school and I'm still a virgin, I'm not waiting for marriage or anything like that but I just want to be able to take care of myself if I somehow get pregnant.

    If it helps at all though one of my friends lost her virginity when she was 12 and has been pregnant twice now.

    ^Hence why I want to have a job and AT LEAST a high school education before I have sex because she actually used protection (birth control then later tried condoms)and still got pregnant.

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  • I was 14. I notice a lot of people are judgemental in this poll but I'll clear a few things up for myself. It was with my boyfriend, we used a condom and he was more than happy to wait till I was ready.

    I don't regret it because I loved him.

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  • 15 (him 16) and I don't regret it. We waited a while and it was just right I guess. We loved each other so why not? It was special and although it hurt, lovely. :) xx

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  • I lost it when I was 16

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  • on my 14th borthday x

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  • 16 :)

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  • lost mine at 15 with da guy dat i love with all my heart.....:)

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  • 17. She rapped me in a good way!

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  • 13 by my aount (moms sister) :(

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  • im gunna wait for the right guy :)

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  • Lost it when I was 18, and I regret having it with that guy. He was a jerk and our short-lived relationship was too revolved around sex.....That bothered me a lot. :(

    Wish I waited til I met the love of my life.

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  • 15 with a long term Girlfriend. She was long term at least. WISH I WOULD HAVE SAVED IT FOR SOMEONE ELSE NOW, but oh well, what's done is done.

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  • well ive tried... but it was way to painfull! that was last night... i regret it a lot!

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  • 6 days after my 17th birthday ;)

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  • 22. Not sure, if it counts, though. Won't go into details. But totally emotionally funckd' :-\

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  • Which time counts?When I was7,a friend and I sucked each others cock.When I was 13,I had sex with an adult male,or when I finally got some pussy,at 20?

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  • I was 12. He was 18. I regret it bit now (I'm 19) but it had to go sometime *shrug*

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  • 14.

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  • I was 4 and 1\2 when I did

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  • i was 12 everybody thought it would be cute if i went with my cousins best friend to the prom because her date canceled luckily i had my tuck from the wedding a couple of days before i went i was the life of the party we rode in the limo she was suppose to have dropprd me off b4 she went to her hotel room but she told me to come up she got in the shower..when she came out in the towel i was like oh boy lol but she asked me had i done it b4 i told her no she grabbed my thing pulled it out and lol honestly said wow! i new i was kinda big just hadnt used it yet until that night after that sorry to say i deflowered a lot of girls my age.. and id like to say sorry to them girls :-)

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    • ok ok here is when the bullshits come in ok prom at 12 bullshit a limo bullshit a holtel room with no parents in it bullshit and you deflowered a lot of girls bullshit and your whole story is bullshit

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    • holy shit lolwhat 12 thats fucking wait a limo hmm this is fake n gay

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  • I was 10. my mom's cousion slept with me and in the middle of night i feel pain and when I open my eyes my cock was death hard and the head portion has become in red in color.. wooo I aunt continue to pull me.

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  • I was 8

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  • We were both 13, only 2 months apart, it was amazing :)

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  • I'm bi. I was 13 with another boy my age. We had been friends for most of our lives. 14 with a girl. No regrets.

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  • Never..

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  • I grew up in a small town and it was hard to get a girlfriend. It wasn't until I moved to a big city at 22 I actually had any luck with the ladies. I lost mine at 22.

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  • I was 22 when I fucked the woman who became my wife. She is still the only woman I have fucked.

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  • I'm a 24 guy and still a virgin. I'm not ashamed of it.

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  • Still a virgin, and I am already 21.
    Waiting for the right guy! xoxo

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  • I stuck my dick in my cousin Angela's butt when I was 14 does that count or is anal sex still virginity, she was 15

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  • 17 I was raped...

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  • Im 16 and pregnant..... And im a boy

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  • On my 18th birthday, but started fooling around a month or so before that.

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  • Not sure if i'm supposed to pick 16-18 or 18-25, so I didn't vote.

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  • i was an English teacher in Korea, teaching adults in a private school.

    Out having dinner with a female student, we both got really drunk and she ended up back at my apartment.

    The clothes came off and we started fooling around. I tried to slip a finger into her pussy but it was too tight to take my finger tip (woohoo! I thought, that's gonna feel good to squeeze into!) and then her hole just popped open.

    The next day she was furious. Apparently I'd broken her hymen and she'd been intending to save that for her husband to break in.

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  • 19 and it was lack of opportunity that I didn't do it before. I was ready at 12.

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  • i lost mine at 13.. it was only partly my fault though.. some 17 year old got me so drunk i couldnt walk.. but i was awake so its not considered rape.. kinda just sucks i never got that moment to have lost it to someone special..

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  • I think I was 5 or 6. Can't really remember. Might have been a little older. I had started school. I didn't actually know what sex was at the time.

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  • I'm asexual and I don't think my virgin status will change unless I'm raped or something...which will hopefully never happen.

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  • Most these people are just saying they lost there's at 12 or 13 they just want to be cool nd at 12 u probably weren't even cumming yet

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  • You know, something the older ladies and gents above me gotta understand is me and all of us kids are living in the tween age, the immature age of the world. It's difficult. When most people were growing up, there wasn't much pressure to have sex. But now, today, it's different. It's a tough choice, but i'm going to try to save mine till marriage. If i can't withstand that, at least until 25. Why? My lucky number (: i'm a guy btw.

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  • 13andahalf i lost ma virginity at ma bf birthday party i was legless and i horny so we had doggey style hardcore i loved it x

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  • When I was 5 years old

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  • I'm 19 and i'm still a virgin. :)

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  • Manny wirgins on this site

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  • don't remember exactly but it was under 14

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  • Let's also say best 10 birthday ever

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  • I'm thirteen and I here that some people in my grade is already doing it so have a goal by 2013 I will no longer be a virgin (I'm a boy)

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    • Shouldent be that hard haha I said hard I got laid at 10 so relly it's quite normal also decreased my chances by doing it on my bday

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  • I'm losing it right now

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  • 16 :)

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  • 20 and still a virgin. I've never even been blown, ach.. I've made out and kissed a girl's boobs with her bikini on though.

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  • im a virgin but im only 18 so

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  • 15 years young...

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  • Virgin and waiting on the right person. [:

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  • i really havent made love to somebody i actually love in pre k didnt know were my thing was supposed to go lol

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  • 69 days before my 15th birthday. NO FRIGGING JOKE

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  • @AliciaMcneal
    where aree yuh fromm

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  • If rape counts, it was 9.

    If it doesn't, I'm still a virgin.

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    • :(

      How do you respond to something like this? I want to like, hug you or something but I'm kinda afraid you'll get upset at me or something because I really am not good at being nice to people.

      So I guess I'll just say that it's amazing that you seem (as far as I can tell from your comments anyway) that you're strong.

      Oh my God, I probably seem like an idiot but It's just a reflex of mine to want to help. Sorry if I offended you, I'll just shut up now. DX

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  • 15
    It felt right. And it was

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  • exactly 6 months b4 my 16th birthday

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  • Very first time was with my then girlfriend at 16. Lost it in the traditional sense at 19, and it was horrible.

    To people who lost it before 16 (and weren't - AFAIK - raped): I'm sorry for asking, and you don't have to answer. BUT does sex feel any different then to now?

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    • I have to say, definitely. It's more of a mental difference than physical difference though. The level of maturity and connection can be shared on different levels now that I am older. In retrospect, I do wish I would have saved it for a more emotional experience.

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    • The physical sensations are different but the older you get the more comfortable you are with your body and more open to discuss what you enjoy. Sex gets better as you get older but the first few times you do it (at any age) it's going to be a little awkward.

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  • Okay, to all the people who lost their virginity at 18 and lower, you're sluts. Especially when you lose it at 14!!! Slut slut slut slut slut

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    • well that's a bit close minded... i lost mine at 17 and i'm proud of it!

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    • and u r an Asshole Asshole Asshole Asshole Asshole Asshole Asshole Asshole Asshole!!!!!Bastard

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    • i lost mine at 14-15 ..i can insure you i aint a slut .. i was with the boy for 2 years and atill with him now .. shouldnt juge from so little information :/ ..i dont think it is normal for -12 year old to lose it but then again who am i to juge whats normal and whats not , in some religions its a discrase if your an 18 year old virgine or in some case's lower :/ , just pointing out x

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    • dude harsh.... ive been with my boyfriend like three fucking years and i almost lost mine two nights ago. how am i a slut if ive been with him that long?

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    • Not everyones mormon, or claiming to be mormon cause your parents observe your computer time LoL. You're Prude.

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    • What about the people who lost their virginity at that age because they were raped?

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    • And you're an idiot! Possibly a BarlowGirl, judging by your behaviour.

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    • god you are an AWFUL person to say that!

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  • I was 14, still with the guy and I'm 16 now.

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  • 17 and it was surprisingly good sex(both virgins) After that she sure was a freak in bed!!

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  • 13

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  • I had hard sex at 10 it took me an hour to find the hole don't be all nag u had sex at 10 gross it was awsome O-O

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  • I lost mine at 15 with my ex and I never will regret it, we loved each other and I learned many things about making love, it is an art and it amazing when you do it with some one you are in love with :)
    I have a new boyfriend now and we are very much in love and have amazing sex! But at the same time if you dont feel ready dont do something you might regret. even if your 30 it is still cool to wait till you find someone special :)

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  • if it counts i sucked my buds cock and he sucked mine at 6 and at 9 me and a diff friend were watchin porn and had boners when we went to sleep we woke up with our pants down rubin each other lol sleep sex o in pre k i fucked a gurl playin house at nap time and right now im hopin to get laid when i go to 6th grade thats about 3 months from now well prob not in the beggining of the year

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  • 17

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  • 14 :)

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  • wow I was 21 and was just dying to lose it!

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  • 13 i am a litle slag lol x

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  • 13 ..

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  • 15

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  • I let a man see my pussy at 14 :)

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  • Lost mine to the sweetest man ever a day before my 9th b-day, and when I found out how good it was and I had real big good big "0"s, I wish I had lost it at 5 or 6, and if I could I would have gotten it at 5! My dad and stepdad said I was a preteen slut and a fuck toy?

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  • I was 11. I don't regret it at all! I would do it again!

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