When and why do girls fake it?
Is it normal for girls to fake it and why do it?
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Is it normal for girls to fake it and why do it?
A man is not responsible for a woman's orgasm. She is! I have never understood why a woman would fake it. I expect to have as many orgasms as possible during sex so why the hell would I fake ONE? What does telling a "white lie" achieve? If a man has no idea how to help bring me to orgasm, how is it compassionate to tell him he did? It's a waste of time! If a guy has to ask, the answer is no.
Good for you Rosie. Some men like me, have detailed knowledge of their partner's style of sexual response that is slowly gained over time. When women fake it, it throws off all their learning and response reflexes.
Sometimes, I'm such a compassionate, perceptive guy that I almost think I'm not a creep.
When: when it becomes obvious the guy could figure it out with a road map.
Why: to get it over with and do something else instead.
I don't usually have to becos I tend to hook up with guys with more skills i.e. older guys. But even so not every one is a good lover so sometimes its necessary. Oh well.
Because they take longer than guys to reach orgasm and certainly the explosive orgasm that you are likely unaware of, and because they feel compassion towards their partner they prefer to white lie to make you feel happy in your little mind.
Once you know how to please a woman (I'd say impossible for any 25 and younger guy to do), they will not need to 'fake it'!
It is not impossible for guys younger than 25. What is impossible is for you to keep your gay cock from fucking guys younger than 25.
Lol, Dad_sucks, member for 10mins.
Without your Dad you wouldn't be here, plus generally Dad's are ones with the power (until equality finally sets in fully in the next generation AFTER yours). Should I create a profile Dad_sucks_is_a_stoopy_head? I think it may be available! For your information I'm not gay - not that there's anything wrong with that.
because some guys cannot handle constructive criticism.. think theyre epic in bed and they arent.. sometimes it saves an argument.. id not see those guys again tho
When and why do Girls fake it? Whenever they feel like doing so and there is nothing you can do about it.
The only way be to be certain the she is not faking it is to give her an orgasm before you even start trying to pleasure yourself!
I find that giving your woman some head usually does the trick...
Could be boredom. Seriously, she may just not be "into it" at that time and figures faking an orgasm is a good way to signal the "finish" of the session. It's not just women BTW, I've "faked it" before to end the encounter in a way that doesn't make the woman feel inadequate.
Alternately, she may be doing it to "make you feel good about yourself" in spite of your "Lack of skill" (or lack of knowledge about exactly what "works best" with her). Mixed in with this could be that she is feeling a sense of personal "inadequacy" because she DIDN'T have an orgasm (sometimes the case with younger women in particular - you know, the "Something is wrong with me because I didn't have an earth-shattering orgasm from cock alone" crowd).
If you suspect your partner is faking it, I suggest you GENTLY confront her about it, and find out why. A little communication now can save a lot of problems and dissatisfaction later - and will probably improve the quality of sex for both of you as well!
Also, remember that sex can be quite enjoyable even if one or both of you don't have an orgasm every time.
Well, there are 2 ways.
1). Wear a condom. Fake the orgasm, whip off the condom, wrap it up in tissues and throw it out before she notices. I've never actually had a woman want to examine the condom after it's been used anyway.
2). Possibly as a result of my vasectomy and age, and particularly after I get that first one out of the way, I don't actually cum a lot in volume so there isn't a huge amount of "evidence". If I time my "fake" orgasm to align with a woman's "real" orgasm, she is too preoccupied with her own thing to notice. I also keep some soft towels next to the bed in any case, so I can be a "nice guy" and gently clean up the "mess". Also works particularly well with "squirters" as there is generally more than enough liquid around to cover up any lack of contribution on my part.
There is not enough tequila in the cupboard to erase what you wrote from my mind. OMG. The timing of your fake orgasm to coincide with her real one. The cover up job with the towels and using her squirting as a diversionary tactic. The destruction of evidence (or lack thereof). I had no idea the mechanics were so deceptive. It's like you work for the CIA.
That is quite easy, you pick up the pace, go frantically for about five minutes, shudder, give a deep throated groan, give one or two real hard "shoves", then just roll over and breath very fast for a minute or two and say, "my God babe, that was mind blowing!"