Whats a "normal" amount of libido for a girl?

For one thing... drop the whole Scorpio zodiac BS. All that crap is just that.. crap. Oh I'm a virgo which means I'm blahblahblah. No it doesn't.
As for your libido. Is there anything in particular that does turn you on? Anything that your boyfriend does that gets you going?
Does he make you orgasm?
If not, then that could explain why you just don't seem to want sex very much.
If you want increased libidio. You could try Maca Root.

Just being born @ a certain time of year doesn't cosmically wire you to be a Nympho, babe. It's a nice thought, but it's no more a certainty than horoscopes are for predicting the exact contents of your day. So think what you want about Scorpios, but everyone's different. Every libido is different. Everyone has different things that *truly* arouse them. And because of this, there's no real criteria for what defines a 'normal' libido. But, finding yourself in a place where you seem to be enjoying sex less than your peers is a fairly common experience.

As far as your experience, though, I wouldn't freak out about it just yet. Being the lone low(er)-sex drive among a group full of would-be Nymphos is like calling yourself boring simply because you're the only sober person @ a party. You may just not like that particular brand of spiked Kool-Aid, ya dig?

So throwing out your social comparisons, the question remains, how do YOU feel about sex? Do you enjoy it? Have you been doing it because you really want to have that experience with someone or just because it's something to do with a guy in the middle of a slow afternoon and/or he wanted some, so you gave in? I would ask you to consider your true motives. You may not be into it because... you're just not into it the way it's been happening. More than that, do you climax? If not, why not? And if you don't know, that's fine, but now you know what to look @ to find some answers. And if you are climaxing, why isn't that doing it for you? In that case, I would look @ your company and/or the technique/environment.

Also, it's a been proven that women, on the whole, require some element of emotional investment to truly enjoy the act of sex. Now, granted, that isn't the ONLY way to enjoy sex (plenty get off just fine specifically because of the LACK of that element), but for some, it really makes the difference. It could be that while your girlfriends and partners have set a relatively low bar for reasons to make some f**k, you find yourself desiring more than just 'willing and able.' Beyond that, you should explore the idea that straight sex (e.g. bed, man, you spread open, then thurst, thrust, splat, etc.) is even the best/most preferred/most enjoyable way for you to enjoy sex.

So I would suggest looking @ what you know, then work outward towards what you don't, and then investigate what truly interests you, if you even know what is (yet). Be experimental, and stop trying to define yourself on the collective 'normal' spectrum. Your task is to discover where you and how this feels normal and natural for YOU. And then you may find yourself enjoy sex more than all your girlfriends combined. And remember, this day age, with the world wide internets, almost EVERYTHING in the infinitely freaky realm of Sex falls within the boundries of 'normal.'

Good luck, sweetie.

//T

There's way more to astrology than your sun sign, in fact that's one of the least important or impressive factors - so don't go looking at it for all the answers to who you are.

Next, I think you'd be better served figuring out what interests you than what works for others. The people I know (myself included) who are extremely comfortable with their sexuality and good in the sack, are so because they are sure of their wants needs interests and of course their turn offs too.

If SEX isn't screaming at you perhaps its because SEX isn't your way, or at least not the way that you've been shown.

A dear friend of mine is a largely introverted woman, she's not a sex fiend, she's not even a masturbator.. she really just isn't interested. But you give this girl a book with just a tiny bit of romance and she's craving her hubbys hands. She requires a different kind of mindset, an ethereal one - something thats not just "we fuck". I'm a visceral sex person, i masturbate frequently and my "fantasies" involve more "raw" or "animalistic" interests.

If people are saying you are boring in bed.. I think it's because -you- are bored in bed. When you are engaged in what is going on and really enjoying it, you become a better partner. Seriously consider.... were these partners making you FEEL anything besides being penetrated or judged? Perhaps it's their performance that you shuold be focussing on... what would you rather they be doing, what would make it better for you?

Find the answers to that and you'll be on your way to Owning your sexuality.

maybe "the right guy isn't a guy at all"

Nothing worse than a cold fish in bed.

I say get a dildo and go to town. Get to know your body and have a few mins blowing orgasms in the privacy of your own home alone.

Problem is you haven't been dicked down yet.

The zodiac signs aren't literally true, they're just for fun.

tough luck. Solutions: a) hook up with a 60year old guy
b)find someone with as low sex drive as yours.

First of all, astrology is mostly just stereotypes based on superstition. Normal for a girl? I've been in several relationships and I can tell you there is no "normal" libido for a girl. Normal is just what you're comfortable with. Intercourse or even oral twice a week would be plenty enough to satisfy me, and I have a huge sex drive. It helps that I can autofellate, but I have never taken sex for granted.

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Most of the women I know have very low drives and hate sex. Good for them, their health is better for it.

First of all, your zodiac sign has nothing to do with your sexuality. You may think it does, but I promise you it doesn't. Anyways, maybe you just aren't ready yet... maybe you just need to wait and get comfortable with the person.

I think you need to be in control. So stop listening to all the nonsense and just do, or don't do, whatever you feel like.

Girl ur missing out on alot sex is great i fuck random people just to fulfill my sexual desires.I masturbate all the time too you should try K.Y. intense it kind of wakes your pussy up and your then a sex kitten,personal experince .