Lets put it this way; The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.It also takes a strong person to say sorry, and an even stronger person to forgive.It also means forgiving is not forgetting. It's letting go of the hurt.Grudges are also for those who insist that they are owed something; forgiveness, however, is for those who are substantial enough to move on.
I am not trying to change your ways, but i hope you find it in your heart one day to forgive the ones who hurt you instead of dwelling on hatred,misery and move on. It all happens for a reason.
Its a necessity to grow stronger to protect you loved ones. hatred cannot drive out hatred, only the light can. Well we are all here for a reason, we live this life to experience and learn. Life is like labyrinth or series of chambers and in order to open the next door we need to pass a certain task to open the other door.
your not taking in account every situation that could happen.
in the example of my bfs mom we just left. if we forgave her that would be us talking to her again. we dont forgive so we dont talk to her. forgiving would literally change nothing. she wouldnt change she never has. also she has never said sorry for anything ever.
but its not like i sit here and dwell on it all day. i just left the situation and that was that.
so we left her behind and we are starting a new better life.
not every situation deserves forgiveness...but people should also learn to move on.
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that's fine it doesn't mean you haft to talk to her again
well tough love sometimes!My siblings never have said sorry to me in their lifetime no matter. Like geez they have such thick skin , but im so sensitive hehe oh well
i agree in your situation, because you need people to build you not bring you down.Surround yourself with good energies that's they way to go Remini.
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Lets put it this way; The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.It also takes a strong person to say sorry, and an even stronger person to forgive.It also means forgiving is not forgetting. It's letting go of the hurt.Grudges are also for those who insist that they are owed something; forgiveness, however, is for those who are substantial enough to move on.
I am not trying to change your ways, but i hope you find it in your heart one day to forgive the ones who hurt you instead of dwelling on hatred,misery and move on. It all happens for a reason.
Its a necessity to grow stronger to protect you loved ones. hatred cannot drive out hatred, only the light can. Well we are all here for a reason, we live this life to experience and learn. Life is like labyrinth or series of chambers and in order to open the next door we need to pass a certain task to open the other door.
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i dont dwell on it.i dont dwell on anything.
your not taking in account every situation that could happen.
in the example of my bfs mom we just left. if we forgave her that would be us talking to her again. we dont forgive so we dont talk to her. forgiving would literally change nothing. she wouldnt change she never has. also she has never said sorry for anything ever.
but its not like i sit here and dwell on it all day. i just left the situation and that was that.
so we left her behind and we are starting a new better life.
not every situation deserves forgiveness...but people should also learn to move on.
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that's fine it doesn't mean you haft to talk to her again
well tough love sometimes!My siblings never have said sorry to me in their lifetime no matter. Like geez they have such thick skin , but im so sensitive hehe oh well
i agree in your situation, because you need people to build you not bring you down.Surround yourself with good energies that's they way to go Remini.
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yes i give that advice to anyone.
dont keep toxic people around only surround yourself with good people. :)