I'd tell them how I feel, and show my concern if it bothered me that much. If they can't be understanding of my concern, I would try to come to terms with the fact that it was their own choice/decision. I wouldn't harp on it, and let them be. But if with time it seems like pot has taken over their lives and they appear to be taking a downhill spiral taking the friendship along with them, I'd maybe try to talk with them about it again, or talk with them about getting help. If they don't listen, unfortunately there isn't much you can do about that. Whether they want to go that route or not. At the end of the day, its their choice.
And people also change, so its your choice whether you'd wanna stick around to befriend the 'new them' or not. If you can't deal with the new them, then understand that the person they once were no longer is, and either learn to deal with that, or move on and leave the friendship behind hoping that maybe one day they'll come back around.
What would you do if you found this out about a friend?
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I'd tell them how I feel, and show my concern if it bothered me that much. If they can't be understanding of my concern, I would try to come to terms with the fact that it was their own choice/decision. I wouldn't harp on it, and let them be. But if with time it seems like pot has taken over their lives and they appear to be taking a downhill spiral taking the friendship along with them, I'd maybe try to talk with them about it again, or talk with them about getting help. If they don't listen, unfortunately there isn't much you can do about that. Whether they want to go that route or not. At the end of the day, its their choice.
And people also change, so its your choice whether you'd wanna stick around to befriend the 'new them' or not. If you can't deal with the new them, then understand that the person they once were no longer is, and either learn to deal with that, or move on and leave the friendship behind hoping that maybe one day they'll come back around.