Sorry you feel that way. Like I said, it depends on the couple.
I have a high standard of cleanliness, so I do my own cleaning. You act as if I don't know better, but I was raised under different conditions over the years, and that isn't so.
Sorry, but I just like doing most of the domestic work. I'm a restless busy-body. I could have my husband do more, but I don't care enough to. I'm not going to put any sort of effort into "equality" of housework if I legitimately enjoy having the amount of control over the affairs of my household that I do. I don't understand what is so archaic about my enjoying doing things on my own. Helps me control my ADHD.
Besides, I just have my husband do all of the laundry. I hate laundry. With a passion. That's enough "equality" for me. Everything else is a breeze. But laundry isn't. He does other shit too, mainly cleaning up after himself. I'm not his Mom. Sorry, ItDuz.
What would you do if the girl of your dreams told you she wants this?
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Sorry you feel that way. Like I said, it depends on the couple.
I have a high standard of cleanliness, so I do my own cleaning. You act as if I don't know better, but I was raised under different conditions over the years, and that isn't so.
Sorry, but I just like doing most of the domestic work. I'm a restless busy-body. I could have my husband do more, but I don't care enough to. I'm not going to put any sort of effort into "equality" of housework if I legitimately enjoy having the amount of control over the affairs of my household that I do. I don't understand what is so archaic about my enjoying doing things on my own. Helps me control my ADHD.
Besides, I just have my husband do all of the laundry. I hate laundry. With a passion. That's enough "equality" for me. Everything else is a breeze. But laundry isn't. He does other shit too, mainly cleaning up after himself. I'm not his Mom. Sorry, ItDuz.