Saying it is acceptable for an uneven division of housework amongst a working couple with no children is so archaic and sexist. I am surprised that someone as logical as you would condone such a thing.
If it is a part of your culture or the way you were raised, then that is only justifying something because you were brainwashed to think it was acceptable from a young age and you don't know any better.
Women's equal rights and treatment starts in the home. And unequal distribution of housework puts one person above the other, even if you are not aware of it yet.
I'm starting to see where you are going with the wife that only does housework thing, but I still have an issue with it. I guess maybe people aren't like me. Housework is a fucking breeze for me, but maybe for some people it is difficult and a chore?
I mean... really, what WOULD she do once the housework is done? In my experience, to keep a 4 person house where 4 people aren't horrible pigs clean may take about 2 days worth of cleaning, beginning and mid-week.
Sorry you feel that way. Like I said, it depends on the couple.
I have a high standard of cleanliness, so I do my own cleaning. You act as if I don't know better, but I was raised under different conditions over the years, and that isn't so.
Sorry, but I just like doing most of the domestic work. I'm a restless busy-body. I could have my husband do more, but I don't care enough to. I'm not going to put any sort of effort into "equality" of housework if I legitimately enjoy having the amount of control over the affairs of my household that I do. I don't understand what is so archaic about my enjoying doing things on my own. Helps me control my ADHD.
Besides, I just have my husband do all of the laundry. I hate laundry. With a passion. That's enough "equality" for me. Everything else is a breeze. But laundry isn't. He does other shit too, mainly cleaning up after himself. I'm not his Mom. Sorry, ItDuz.
What would you do if the girl of your dreams told you she wants this?
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Saying it is acceptable for an uneven division of housework amongst a working couple with no children is so archaic and sexist. I am surprised that someone as logical as you would condone such a thing.
If it is a part of your culture or the way you were raised, then that is only justifying something because you were brainwashed to think it was acceptable from a young age and you don't know any better.
Women's equal rights and treatment starts in the home. And unequal distribution of housework puts one person above the other, even if you are not aware of it yet.
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I'm starting to see where you are going with the wife that only does housework thing, but I still have an issue with it. I guess maybe people aren't like me. Housework is a fucking breeze for me, but maybe for some people it is difficult and a chore?
I mean... really, what WOULD she do once the housework is done? In my experience, to keep a 4 person house where 4 people aren't horrible pigs clean may take about 2 days worth of cleaning, beginning and mid-week.
Sorry you feel that way. Like I said, it depends on the couple.
I have a high standard of cleanliness, so I do my own cleaning. You act as if I don't know better, but I was raised under different conditions over the years, and that isn't so.
Sorry, but I just like doing most of the domestic work. I'm a restless busy-body. I could have my husband do more, but I don't care enough to. I'm not going to put any sort of effort into "equality" of housework if I legitimately enjoy having the amount of control over the affairs of my household that I do. I don't understand what is so archaic about my enjoying doing things on my own. Helps me control my ADHD.
Besides, I just have my husband do all of the laundry. I hate laundry. With a passion. That's enough "equality" for me. Everything else is a breeze. But laundry isn't. He does other shit too, mainly cleaning up after himself. I'm not his Mom. Sorry, ItDuz.