I dunno, I might tell the person the truth, and say that I ghosted them, because I just didn't feel like we had anything in common, and didn't want to go through the drama of having to officially reject the person for whatever reason. Then I might tell them that I wish them all the best in their life journey, but to be truthful I just don't want to have anything to do with that person.
I think people usually ghost others, because the person they are ghosting just can't take a hint.
I can't really recall anyone I have ghosted off the top of my head, because I don't generally try to ghost people, but sometimes one does have to ghost a person. Some people are really high strung, don't handle rejection well, and are just generally hard to get away from so that would be a good reason to ghost someone. If a person is hard to get off the phone even if I tell them I have things to do, and really need to go I will probably feel the need to not take that person's phone calls anymore. If a person doesn't respect other people's boundaries they are practically asking to get ghosted.
I know a woman that I used to talk to, and hang out with, but she can be embarrassing, and over the top so now I only text her back on rare occasion. I wish her well, but she basically just wore me out. I probably haven't actually spoken to her in over ten years. The last time I met up with this woman I brought another friend with me.
What would you do if someone you ghosted confronted you
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I dunno, I might tell the person the truth, and say that I ghosted them, because I just didn't feel like we had anything in common, and didn't want to go through the drama of having to officially reject the person for whatever reason. Then I might tell them that I wish them all the best in their life journey, but to be truthful I just don't want to have anything to do with that person.
I think people usually ghost others, because the person they are ghosting just can't take a hint.
I can't really recall anyone I have ghosted off the top of my head, because I don't generally try to ghost people, but sometimes one does have to ghost a person. Some people are really high strung, don't handle rejection well, and are just generally hard to get away from so that would be a good reason to ghost someone. If a person is hard to get off the phone even if I tell them I have things to do, and really need to go I will probably feel the need to not take that person's phone calls anymore. If a person doesn't respect other people's boundaries they are practically asking to get ghosted.
I know a woman that I used to talk to, and hang out with, but she can be embarrassing, and over the top so now I only text her back on rare occasion. I wish her well, but she basically just wore me out. I probably haven't actually spoken to her in over ten years. The last time I met up with this woman I brought another friend with me.