Most people I've cut contact with was out of mutual benefit, although usually other people seem to confuse my ignorance and desire to learn for malicious intent and sometimes I do asshole things if someone's an asshole to me, but then they play the "omg I have no idea what's going on but this happened" game which usually means there's a whole group of people now who have been strung together with manipulation to hate me
I just saw the husband of someone I accepted had ghosted me. I know he only came there to see me, with his freshly cut hair. It took a second to recognize him, but I didn't pretend to not know him. I didn't sense any evil, although I feel like his presence was foreboding. I'm definitely capable of pretending to not know someone. If it happens again I probably would pretend to not know them. I can probably even make it obvious to anyone listening that they're acting irrationally. But if I don't get put in that position I'm happy with not thinking about anyone I've cut contact with
What would you do if someone you ghosted confronted you
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Most people I've cut contact with was out of mutual benefit, although usually other people seem to confuse my ignorance and desire to learn for malicious intent and sometimes I do asshole things if someone's an asshole to me, but then they play the "omg I have no idea what's going on but this happened" game which usually means there's a whole group of people now who have been strung together with manipulation to hate me
I just saw the husband of someone I accepted had ghosted me. I know he only came there to see me, with his freshly cut hair. It took a second to recognize him, but I didn't pretend to not know him. I didn't sense any evil, although I feel like his presence was foreboding. I'm definitely capable of pretending to not know someone. If it happens again I probably would pretend to not know them. I can probably even make it obvious to anyone listening that they're acting irrationally. But if I don't get put in that position I'm happy with not thinking about anyone I've cut contact with