prefers to be alone. im this way, nothing personal if you havent done anything to me, just the way i am. *shrug* i dont owe anyone anything. also keep in mind, ppl at work NEVER seem to grasp this simple concept, we and fellow employees yes, but we are NOT friends. (i dont mean this in a bad way just stating a simple fact). you do NOT actually know me, my work PERSONA, the one you HAVE to wear infront of customers, and boss, and other employees, is NOT who i am, OUTSIDE of the workspace. (i AM shy, etc etc. but thats not the aspect im talking about, but more the ''hello, how you doing, how can i help you balh blah being super sweet (i can be thsi too) and being a robot with no emotions even if my life is hell at home, because the customer is always right blah blah). like we ALL wear a MASK when we are at work. that is not a true representation of ourselves, who we are etc.
i have a lOT of things going on in my personal life, so much so i am now disabled n not able to work. have suffered a lot of horrific abuse etc. as im sure you'll find if you read throught some of my posts. and as a result of such im a very private, secluded, anxious person. but when i was still working id pretend n have to act upbeat etc. because you have to perform for customers and ppl around you. no one wants to be served by someone that is sad and crying all the time, or depressed etc. so i wore a mask. n ppl at work act as if tey know me , but literally knew nothing about me.
just going out after work doesnt really count either imo. what do you do for eachother on a DEEPER level. are you there for eachother if somone is going thorugh a rough time in life? if that person quit n went to another job would you still keep contact??
at work you all put on a front to make things run smoother, n sure maybe you're all nice n have no issues with eachother, but that doesnt mean much on a deeper level at all.
What would you assume when a shy coworker doesn't sit next to all of you?
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prefers to be alone. im this way, nothing personal if you havent done anything to me, just the way i am. *shrug* i dont owe anyone anything. also keep in mind, ppl at work NEVER seem to grasp this simple concept, we and fellow employees yes, but we are NOT friends. (i dont mean this in a bad way just stating a simple fact). you do NOT actually know me, my work PERSONA, the one you HAVE to wear infront of customers, and boss, and other employees, is NOT who i am, OUTSIDE of the workspace. (i AM shy, etc etc. but thats not the aspect im talking about, but more the ''hello, how you doing, how can i help you balh blah being super sweet (i can be thsi too) and being a robot with no emotions even if my life is hell at home, because the customer is always right blah blah). like we ALL wear a MASK when we are at work. that is not a true representation of ourselves, who we are etc.
i have a lOT of things going on in my personal life, so much so i am now disabled n not able to work. have suffered a lot of horrific abuse etc. as im sure you'll find if you read throught some of my posts. and as a result of such im a very private, secluded, anxious person. but when i was still working id pretend n have to act upbeat etc. because you have to perform for customers and ppl around you. no one wants to be served by someone that is sad and crying all the time, or depressed etc. so i wore a mask. n ppl at work act as if tey know me , but literally knew nothing about me.
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work 'friends' =/= real friends.
just going out after work doesnt really count either imo. what do you do for eachother on a DEEPER level. are you there for eachother if somone is going thorugh a rough time in life? if that person quit n went to another job would you still keep contact??
at work you all put on a front to make things run smoother, n sure maybe you're all nice n have no issues with eachother, but that doesnt mean much on a deeper level at all.