What's wrong with him talking to your girlfriends? Is that forbidden? You got a sign on your bathroom that says "Girls only", or what?! It's not creepy. You invited some of your girlfriends, your boyfriend knows them, he was being normal and friendly having a chat with them.
If you wanted to be all secretive, you should have gone to your girlfriends place without your boyfriend.
You need to grow up OP! A relationship is based on truth, honesty, understanding and love. What you're doing is lame. Cause I bet you any money if he met with his mates playing video games and drinking in the living room and shooed you away casually 'cause it's guys time to hang out you'd probably throw a tantrum so big, people from the next town will hear it!
Lighten up, this kinda stuff is toxic for a relationship.
It's amazing how everyone responding has such strong feelings against this. I didn't think it was a big deal at all. I just don't think it's appropriate for him to chat up my friends in the bathroom. Like I've already said, if I was brushing my hair and a dude came in and started talking to be I'd be like "bro, I'll be out in a second". My girls didn't think anything of it! But I just don't think it's something a gentleman would do.
Let me take you on a little trip... A different scenario. Let's assume for the moment you were my girlfriend. I'm a car guy. I invited my friends to the garage for drinks, a bit of work on my E24 1984 BMW project car (mainly 70s and 80s rock, lots of nonsense talk and barely any work) and then to play PS3 games on the old tv I have in my garage like I sometimes do when it's warm... And then you walk in and try to chat up someone. It's half your house, cause living together... I quickly grab you by the shirt, pull you out of the garage and into the house and tell you "You're being a creep, we are just hanging out, boys only, no girls allowed, get lost"
How would you feel? You'd throw a fit right? Right. You'd call me out on my bullshit and probably want to break up with me for being a racist, bigot hater that excludes his girlfriend from any of his social events... >Insert more angry actions here<
Your scenario - same thing, except the one being treated wrong is your boyfriend, who has every right to be annoyed about the whole thing. You're the one hosting a social event in your bathroom and being weird about it.
You're making the guy feel like crap and like some awkward dork. A relationship has to work both ways.
If you wanted to be all secret that bad, you should have gone to one of your friend's places, away from your boyfriend, away from other people. So you can have your top secret chats in peace.
Whenever my girlfriend has guests over, I'm always friendly and social, even if I don't like the company. It's what a real gentleman does.
If my girlfriend wants to do something without me, like see a movie with her girlfriends, or go out, she lets me know, so I know how to plan ahead.
Without communication there is no relationship. There lies only chaos.
Wow. Once again. People are so shook by this and it's so confusing to me. I was communicating that it would be weird if some dude came in the BATHROOM not garage. Lort.
If no one is naked, or taking a whiz, and or birthing a big, brown mud snake the BATHROOM is just another room! Your answers about this don't really explain anything, the answers are just vague, and go in circles.
What, is the bathroom a magical place where one might get turned into a frog if someone of the opposite sex speaks while one is brushing one's hair?
What would a gentleman do?
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What's wrong with him talking to your girlfriends? Is that forbidden? You got a sign on your bathroom that says "Girls only", or what?! It's not creepy. You invited some of your girlfriends, your boyfriend knows them, he was being normal and friendly having a chat with them.
If you wanted to be all secretive, you should have gone to your girlfriends place without your boyfriend.
You need to grow up OP! A relationship is based on truth, honesty, understanding and love. What you're doing is lame. Cause I bet you any money if he met with his mates playing video games and drinking in the living room and shooed you away casually 'cause it's guys time to hang out you'd probably throw a tantrum so big, people from the next town will hear it!
Lighten up, this kinda stuff is toxic for a relationship.
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It's amazing how everyone responding has such strong feelings against this. I didn't think it was a big deal at all. I just don't think it's appropriate for him to chat up my friends in the bathroom. Like I've already said, if I was brushing my hair and a dude came in and started talking to be I'd be like "bro, I'll be out in a second". My girls didn't think anything of it! But I just don't think it's something a gentleman would do.
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Let me take you on a little trip... A different scenario. Let's assume for the moment you were my girlfriend. I'm a car guy. I invited my friends to the garage for drinks, a bit of work on my E24 1984 BMW project car (mainly 70s and 80s rock, lots of nonsense talk and barely any work) and then to play PS3 games on the old tv I have in my garage like I sometimes do when it's warm... And then you walk in and try to chat up someone. It's half your house, cause living together... I quickly grab you by the shirt, pull you out of the garage and into the house and tell you "You're being a creep, we are just hanging out, boys only, no girls allowed, get lost"
How would you feel? You'd throw a fit right? Right. You'd call me out on my bullshit and probably want to break up with me for being a racist, bigot hater that excludes his girlfriend from any of his social events... >Insert more angry actions here<
Your scenario - same thing, except the one being treated wrong is your boyfriend, who has every right to be annoyed about the whole thing. You're the one hosting a social event in your bathroom and being weird about it.
You're making the guy feel like crap and like some awkward dork. A relationship has to work both ways.
If you wanted to be all secret that bad, you should have gone to one of your friend's places, away from your boyfriend, away from other people. So you can have your top secret chats in peace.
Whenever my girlfriend has guests over, I'm always friendly and social, even if I don't like the company. It's what a real gentleman does.
If my girlfriend wants to do something without me, like see a movie with her girlfriends, or go out, she lets me know, so I know how to plan ahead.
Without communication there is no relationship. There lies only chaos.
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Wow. Once again. People are so shook by this and it's so confusing to me. I was communicating that it would be weird if some dude came in the BATHROOM not garage. Lort.
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If no one is naked, or taking a whiz, and or birthing a big, brown mud snake the BATHROOM is just another room! Your answers about this don't really explain anything, the answers are just vague, and go in circles.
What, is the bathroom a magical place where one might get turned into a frog if someone of the opposite sex speaks while one is brushing one's hair?
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wow, never heard crap referred to something so horrendus. liked the last thing you said too
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I much appreciate your response!
You sound like a spoiled brat. Hopefully your boyfriend has a larger brain than you and leaves your pathetic ass.
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Pathetic? You're judging me off of one comment. Brilliant.
Why, were your friends naked?