What to say to step daughter in the hospital after delivery?

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  • Your arguments are silly little girl dreams of prince charming and they live happily ever after.
    Life isn't like that. Nobody who must live their life on government assistance feels good about it. Their child can't have too much pride in living that way. None of that is conducive to good mental health and at least in the US, often leads to alcohol, drug and physical abuse. You know that. And very often the cycle continues when the baby also has a child while still a child herself. You know that's true, too. There is no obligation to keep the child. The welfare of the baby should be paramount. And that is not going to be served by having an uneducated single parent on the dole.
    My child raising decisions are not applicable. My daughter did not get pregnant until last year, as a mature, married woman.
    But my question to you is why you even bother to respond to my posts? Is it only to be an asshole? Why not make your opinions known to the OP? He at least asked for people's opinion. I did not ask for yours.
    Most of the time what you say doesn't make the tiniest bit of sense. It seems to be all female emotional drivel, like you are on your period every time you decide to attack me. Is that what's really going on here? You are silent for weeks at a time then bang, here you are in your PMS mode!
    I do believe I've got your number now. Aha, eureka!

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    • Cheap, misogynistic shots, when I've already explained to you that many a time I see you say something so completely misinformed, outright ludicrous, or just plain evil that I correct you. I know you can't understand that I don't see these horrific statements you probably make on an hourly basis, but I only see whatever you write on post I actually look at; I don't have the inclination or stomach to stalk your profile. I also know you can't understand that opposing your horendous and offensive and misinformed/completely incorrect crap is applicable to the post, but it is. Very much so.

      I asked the age of your daughter at emancipation, genius, because that is when she was legally declared able to be responsible for herself. Yet this 16 year old is, in your opinion, not. Hypocrisy? Again? But no. You'd much rather have a tantrum than understand the simple link there.

      You've admitted to wigz that you were wrong in your shaming and completely fucked up attack on this kid. So don't even try to tell me I'm wrong, when she and I were saying the exact same fucking thing.

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      • Why don't you post to the OP from now on, I don't even want to read your bullshit.
        You've lied your ass of about 'raising' 40 kids, so, never having been a parent you really don't have anything upon which to base your crazy ideas but emotion.
        I know you are wrong because you think a child should have the right of self determination, and in this case, a child with a less than stellar history of making good, intelligent decisions. You are being totally emotional without any regard for the welfare of the baby or her mother. There are some decisions that are the responsibility of the parent and what to do with this baby is one of them.

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        • How is that any different from your current arrangement where you see my username and have an aneurysm, and become hellbent on disagreeing, without even reading what I say?

          I don't care if you think I'm lying. Fact of the matter is, I am not the one desperate to brag about things on IIN. I am not the one who has created a whole identify around that one thing. I am not so pig headed that I think people exist just to target me. I am not so insane that I spew the bile you do. I don't know everything, but if I comment, I make sure it's something I know about. I don't attack a child based on next to no detail. I don't believe in violating human rights. And I'm not petty enough to jump at all your increasing typos and spelling errors.

          You still never answered. How old was your daughter, with a history of making bad decisions, when she was declared legally a self responsible adult?

          Can't answer without being a hypocrite? I thought so.

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          • You say your are none of those things so I guess that only leaves a PMSing lying bitch.
            My daughter was NEVER 'declared legally a self responsible adult'. You got that wrong too. You just get all emotional and make up shit like 'raising' 40 kids and misread (or miss-remember) shit.
            Anyway keep trying, but you just ain't got the smarts, honey. You just don't.

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            • I see. So what is YOUR definition of emancipation of a minor, and how old was your daughter when granted it? You're the one who decided to make it known on this site, don't get so upset whrn people use it against you.

              If you're going to try and discredit me, you should probably a) get your own shit straight b) actually have anything apart from your own imaginings to level against me and c) stop tantruming like a toddler.

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              • You really are climbing the wrong tree, honey bunny. Go bury your head in the sand, will ya? My daughter NEVER became an emancipated minor or whatever you choose to call it. NEVER. I keep telling you that and you refuse to listen. As usual. Go find the relevant post and get it right.
                Then take your PMSing self off to bed dearie, I'm getting bored with your silly repetitive posts on this thread. Maybe tomorrow your cramps will ease up and you won't be such a fucking BITCH!

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      • Sorry sweetie, you'll have to leave the fight to the other women. Our dubious sailor friend does indeed have your number. :-(

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