But what I meant was, why is it all the girl's fault? You're sitting here calling her names and going on about how much of a piece of shit she is. No mention of the male involved.
You called her a slut, stupid and other insults. That's totally uncalled for, and you're shaming her and her only. Shaming is of no use anyway but if you're going to do it why is it only directed at her? The guy is half culpable here too.
You are absolutely right and I was quite wrong to say that about the girl.
Unfortunately, I lose it when that fucking cunt charli sticks her pms derived comments in where they aren't wanted or appreciated. Ever notice how her attacks are almost exactly 3 weeks apart? She needs to direct her comments to the OP, not me.
I really am sorry to have said that about the girl, but that doesn't change what I feel would be best for her and her child.
It's not so much that people disagree with the general premise, a 16 year old having a baby is not ideal, but it's how you expressed that. Forcing an abortion is just unconscionable. It's illegal anyway. What you seem to be missing is the sensitivity and openness needed to give this girl all the options and you're not allowing for the possibility that she did try or do what she thought she could under the limits imposed on her. You also have to remember a 15 year old is immature mentally but has hormones thru the roof! OP said her boyfriend is 19 so that considered it's even more wrong to bash her and hold her more responsible when this guy was an adult and having sex with her was probably technically rape.
Plus, I mean she's already pregnant and going to give birth soon so taking the girl and the step dad to task over woulda shoulda coulda's is not helpful.
What to say to step daughter in the hospital after delivery?
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What about the father?
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Apparently he's not in the picture. At least he wasn't mentioned. Didn't you bother to read the post?
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OP mentioned him in a reply.
But what I meant was, why is it all the girl's fault? You're sitting here calling her names and going on about how much of a piece of shit she is. No mention of the male involved.
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Because she is the one stuck with the baby, that's all. A guy can split and be Scott free, the girl can't.
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You called her a slut, stupid and other insults. That's totally uncalled for, and you're shaming her and her only. Shaming is of no use anyway but if you're going to do it why is it only directed at her? The guy is half culpable here too.
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You are absolutely right and I was quite wrong to say that about the girl.
Unfortunately, I lose it when that fucking cunt charli sticks her pms derived comments in where they aren't wanted or appreciated. Ever notice how her attacks are almost exactly 3 weeks apart? She needs to direct her comments to the OP, not me.
I really am sorry to have said that about the girl, but that doesn't change what I feel would be best for her and her child.
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Funny. I remember you losing it a long time before charli.m came on and started "attacking" you.
Fucking idiot.
OK, fair enough.
It's not so much that people disagree with the general premise, a 16 year old having a baby is not ideal, but it's how you expressed that. Forcing an abortion is just unconscionable. It's illegal anyway. What you seem to be missing is the sensitivity and openness needed to give this girl all the options and you're not allowing for the possibility that she did try or do what she thought she could under the limits imposed on her. You also have to remember a 15 year old is immature mentally but has hormones thru the roof! OP said her boyfriend is 19 so that considered it's even more wrong to bash her and hold her more responsible when this guy was an adult and having sex with her was probably technically rape.
Plus, I mean she's already pregnant and going to give birth soon so taking the girl and the step dad to task over woulda shoulda coulda's is not helpful.