He's judgement is obviously clouded. Ill be honest, Ive been in that shitty position before, i hated it, i hated what ive become. I hate how clingy i was. I didn't even knew i could become so clinging.I knew but it was uncontrollable at the time. I couldn't figure out what to do. Or what was wrong with me at that time.
It all stems from insecurity. One word but filled with so much negative things inside him.
So you can do one of two things leave him. This will hurt like a bitch, but with that pain and time, he might begin to question what went wrong? He will face his insecurity right in the eye, and one of two things will happen, he will yield to it, or overcome it.
Or take matters into your own hands.
you cannot convince him the error of his ways by yourself trust me. He NEEDS to see an outside opinion of your relationship. Someone he can trust and has a good grasp of your relationship. Someone who cares about you and him. Someone unbiased.
Ill be honest though it might be easier to leave him. But if you do be completely honest about why you left him. Don't lose your cool. He truly needs to hear your last words. It will mean the most. He needs to reflect upon it.
What to do about my boyfriend?
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He's judgement is obviously clouded. Ill be honest, Ive been in that shitty position before, i hated it, i hated what ive become. I hate how clingy i was. I didn't even knew i could become so clinging.I knew but it was uncontrollable at the time. I couldn't figure out what to do. Or what was wrong with me at that time.
It all stems from insecurity. One word but filled with so much negative things inside him.
So you can do one of two things leave him. This will hurt like a bitch, but with that pain and time, he might begin to question what went wrong? He will face his insecurity right in the eye, and one of two things will happen, he will yield to it, or overcome it.
Or take matters into your own hands.
you cannot convince him the error of his ways by yourself trust me. He NEEDS to see an outside opinion of your relationship. Someone he can trust and has a good grasp of your relationship. Someone who cares about you and him. Someone unbiased.
Ill be honest though it might be easier to leave him. But if you do be completely honest about why you left him. Don't lose your cool. He truly needs to hear your last words. It will mean the most. He needs to reflect upon it.
Goodluck sorry for the novel