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I’m in love with someone I can never be with, he tells me he loves me and I’m his world etc but he is with someone. When I first met him he told me he was single and it wasn’t until later down the line I found out he is married! I feel angry as not only has he lied to me but his own wife who he made vows too. He tells me if he could he would run away with me I’m his world he loves me etc but he can’t leabe his wife as she would ruin his business etc. Right now I feel I just can’t be bothered and I’m not going to be third person in a relationship so I have been ignoring his calls and texts and he has started to get aggressive on texts etc. as soon as I found out about him having a wife I flipped how dare he do this to her. So my question is do I say to him if your that unhappy leave her and see if he does or just walk away. I know it’s stupid but I have deep feelings for him right up until now.
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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago | pl

    So he lies to his wife and his lied to you? Move on!

    That said, I'm in a casual (VERY casual) relationship with a bloke I didn't know was married when I first had sex with him: I know he must lie to his wife to be with me and I assume he's not going to be totally honest with me either. If it were ever going to be more than casual, I'd end it, but it's not serious on either side so I haven't, although I have thought of doing so a couple of times.

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  • Flammy
    5 years ago | pl

    I’m not going to entertain him no more and I can’t on this site as I felt I couldn’t talk to anyone im so upset and angry just can’t belheve he has done this and drag me into something that I didn’t want to get involved in

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    5 years ago | pl

    Don't do anything. He's married, so just forget about him.

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    Why are you deleting your comments?

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    • nikkiclaire
      5 years ago | pl

      Go away

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    • nikkiclaire
      5 years ago | pl

      Because I already can't ask questions here now cause of jerks like you and I dont want to get in Trouble.

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      • redrainbow22
        5 years ago | pl

        Your the one who has insecurity issues. Which I'm sorry about. But I'm not trying to personally attack you if you somehow felt like I was

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        • nikkiclaire
          5 years ago | pl

          Learn what harrassment is. Do you know what screenshots are. Do you know how a database works. Nothing actually gets deleted. It just gets flagged. Now. Knock it off. I am not insecure in the slightest. I am sick of you barraging me.with comments for two hours.

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    I think you are drunk

    You are so immature. You are going to block me because I disagree with you.

    I can see we wouldnt get along in real life. You cant handle having a conversation

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    No you dont! They will track you! Trust me!

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    It's not a good thing! I know what a microchip is!

    Stop talking like that

    You really dont want to get it

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    Goodnight, but I still wish you wouldnt get one

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    You even admitted it. How can you think someone being able to scan you is a good thing???

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    They will still be able to track you!

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    No we wont!

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    Do you have a bad memory? You said:

    "I plan to get microchips like dogs have. I can't wait"

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    the chip is not a good thing, how can you pretend it is??

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    stop talking please

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    thats not a good excuse

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    chips are worse -_-

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  • VetusRebellioIudaicum
    5 years ago | pl

    Whenever you feel anything for him, crap your pants. That's a good incentive to stop.

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    they will know who you are!

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    because you shouldnt do that

    the government will be able to track you

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  • Checkmate_King
    5 years ago | pl

    Don't walk --RUN away and don't look back.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago | pl

    Tell him to fuck off and die, and if he doesn't leave you alone get a restraining order. The guy is a lying sack of shit!

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  • Nickvey
    5 years ago | pl

    you are already doing the moralistcaly correct thing , if he was your husband he be fucking some other chickie , so now we know what he is like , what we dont know is what you are like. personally do whatever the hell you please. nothing you do will change anything. this time next year he be fucking the next piece of ass. So if you want to enjoy the ride i say go for it. do you understand? your beating yourself up for nothing. just do what you want and be happy, your going to do that anyway. 100 percent chance. so what are you doing here? asking for permission ? i already know you made up your mind too. you are like an open book.

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    your creeping me out

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