I do EXACTLY the same as "your guy" does. Let me tell you why I do it and maybe it will help you see something you may have overlooked.
Okay, for one: He's not busy focussing on one thing (ie His career), he is busy ignoring you. Why? Because you are becoming TOO MUCH to deal with.
You come across as one of those girls who over-analyze EVERYTHING. That is a huge turn off and also a huge problem starter. It may be because you are really sweet, gentle and caring...or...it may be because you are controlling and want everything to go YOUR WAY. I choose the latter and i'll tell you why:
You are handling this like a little kid throwing a hissyfit. Your passive aggressiveness can vouch for that.
I'm not saying this to be mean or hurt your feelings - I'm calling it like it is. You are one of "those" girls. Believe me - you don't wanna be one of "those" girls.
Do both of you a favour and end things with him.
Because, in the end, (like some people probably would have said already) you deserve better. Better meaning get off your phone and check out if you have a hot neighbour.
Idk I don't think he's ignoring me on purpose because where we left off was making jokes. All of a sudden he disappears. Then he finally contacts me and doesn't have the decency to explain what happened, like someone on here mentioned. Even if he was busy, how time consuming is it to let me know ur busy and thats it.
I do over-analyze everything cause he gives me reasons to so I'm not sorry. My last ex never had to deal with this bull cause he never gave me a reason to over-analyze so I never brought up stuff like this. If guys can just make a little effort, it would not be complicated.
I don't want to be one of "those girls" either but he brings that side of me so thats a reason why I should stop. He should bring out the side everyone else knows about and likes.
What should I text him back?
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I do EXACTLY the same as "your guy" does. Let me tell you why I do it and maybe it will help you see something you may have overlooked.
Okay, for one: He's not busy focussing on one thing (ie His career), he is busy ignoring you. Why? Because you are becoming TOO MUCH to deal with.
You come across as one of those girls who over-analyze EVERYTHING. That is a huge turn off and also a huge problem starter. It may be because you are really sweet, gentle and caring...or...it may be because you are controlling and want everything to go YOUR WAY. I choose the latter and i'll tell you why:
You are handling this like a little kid throwing a hissyfit. Your passive aggressiveness can vouch for that.
I'm not saying this to be mean or hurt your feelings - I'm calling it like it is. You are one of "those" girls. Believe me - you don't wanna be one of "those" girls.
Do both of you a favour and end things with him.
Because, in the end, (like some people probably would have said already) you deserve better. Better meaning get off your phone and check out if you have a hot neighbour.
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Idk I don't think he's ignoring me on purpose because where we left off was making jokes. All of a sudden he disappears. Then he finally contacts me and doesn't have the decency to explain what happened, like someone on here mentioned. Even if he was busy, how time consuming is it to let me know ur busy and thats it.
I do over-analyze everything cause he gives me reasons to so I'm not sorry. My last ex never had to deal with this bull cause he never gave me a reason to over-analyze so I never brought up stuff like this. If guys can just make a little effort, it would not be complicated.
I don't want to be one of "those girls" either but he brings that side of me so thats a reason why I should stop. He should bring out the side everyone else knows about and likes.