Well I realized I think I should be exclusive with him because thats gonna make everything more secure. He'll know he needs to do certain things now but thats just not reality.
Well I haven't texted him back because I don't know what to text him and don't want to text him something ordinary like everythings fine but I also don't want to text him complaining because I have before and he gave me his reason why he does that. I'm 100% sure he is shocked I have gone this long without contacting him because I have always been there for him and now, he needs a taste of his own medicine and he needs to know I'm going to give him the same effort in return. He hasn't texted me either tho after his last text so we haven't communicated like back and forth for like two days.
Right now, I basically have the upper-hand but I'm not sure what I'm going to text him. To be honest, the way we have been communicating is with memes. Its our way of laughing at the things we don't like about each other and its been kool until he went MIA. So I'm thinking of sending him a meme, but again, that's like the ordinary and itll look like everythings okay.
Maybe he's just indifferent, like it doesn't bother him when you don't respond to a text? He doesn't need that constant communication with you because you're not his gf and he doesn't expect you to put in that effort for someone you're not dating.
I think you should wait it out, don't text him until he texts you, like obvi it's not okay and you want more, so you shouldn't send him a meme and pretend it doesn't bother you. He's not going to know anythings wrong unless you tell him.
Idk if you know but he did text me already but last night after almost two days. But I haven't textd him back because like I said, I'm giving him a taste of his own medicine and letting him know that I'm not going to respond quickly an be there for him all the time like I have been.
Idk if that changed your last response. Should I just keep waiting until he texts me again or text him back and if so, then what should I tell him?
I would wait, see if he notices you didn't answer him. Let him see things from your point. A couple days not talking would help and then when he does text you, you can just ask him how he felt when you didn't respond to him.
He just snapchatted me and it was just him at work, a picture of a car. Honestly, I'm shocked. It took him a lot of balls to contact me again without me doing anything. Even tho its nothing, its something. Thats his way of kind of saying "hello? I'm here..." yet I still don't know what to respond. I don't think asking him how he felt is a good idea, thanks tho. I just feel like thats still bothering him about it.
I think I'm just going to send him a quote that sums up my feelings.
What should I text him back?
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Well I realized I think I should be exclusive with him because thats gonna make everything more secure. He'll know he needs to do certain things now but thats just not reality.
Well I haven't texted him back because I don't know what to text him and don't want to text him something ordinary like everythings fine but I also don't want to text him complaining because I have before and he gave me his reason why he does that. I'm 100% sure he is shocked I have gone this long without contacting him because I have always been there for him and now, he needs a taste of his own medicine and he needs to know I'm going to give him the same effort in return. He hasn't texted me either tho after his last text so we haven't communicated like back and forth for like two days.
Right now, I basically have the upper-hand but I'm not sure what I'm going to text him. To be honest, the way we have been communicating is with memes. Its our way of laughing at the things we don't like about each other and its been kool until he went MIA. So I'm thinking of sending him a meme, but again, that's like the ordinary and itll look like everythings okay.
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Maybe he's just indifferent, like it doesn't bother him when you don't respond to a text? He doesn't need that constant communication with you because you're not his gf and he doesn't expect you to put in that effort for someone you're not dating.
I think you should wait it out, don't text him until he texts you, like obvi it's not okay and you want more, so you shouldn't send him a meme and pretend it doesn't bother you. He's not going to know anythings wrong unless you tell him.
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Idk if you know but he did text me already but last night after almost two days. But I haven't textd him back because like I said, I'm giving him a taste of his own medicine and letting him know that I'm not going to respond quickly an be there for him all the time like I have been.
Idk if that changed your last response. Should I just keep waiting until he texts me again or text him back and if so, then what should I tell him?
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I would wait, see if he notices you didn't answer him. Let him see things from your point. A couple days not talking would help and then when he does text you, you can just ask him how he felt when you didn't respond to him.
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He just snapchatted me and it was just him at work, a picture of a car. Honestly, I'm shocked. It took him a lot of balls to contact me again without me doing anything. Even tho its nothing, its something. Thats his way of kind of saying "hello? I'm here..." yet I still don't know what to respond. I don't think asking him how he felt is a good idea, thanks tho. I just feel like thats still bothering him about it.
I think I'm just going to send him a quote that sums up my feelings.