I feel like telling him what you just said..."I get you need your space and I'm trying to give it to you but when you finally texted me, you didn't even have the decency to explain why you went MIA all of a sudden." Plus he didn't consider my sweet text to him. I kind of know what his response would be and it would probably be something like "i didn't know I had to explain something..." then Imma look like the nagging self-centered biotch when all I'm trying to do is make it work for the both of us and he can't see or appreciate that. He's known to be insensitive and he's even admitted he's not "that sweet" so maybe I shouldn't take it personal cause thats just who he is. Complicated.
Well screw him he's not worth your time at all. This is not English class he's not a book that you have to figure out the context clues and read between the lines in order to figure him out. I know that you really like this guy but let's be real. If you ever get in a relationship with this guy he's going to keep blowing you off because he's stressed out and crap. His work is his main lover and you my dear are just the side hoe (not implying that you are one just using this for an example). Please find someone else a lot women think that a man will change for them. Their still the shit head that you fall in love with at first.
I know...I'm scared that once I am in a relationship with him and even marriage, do I want to be dealing with this sh*t? cause he doesn't seem to have the desire to change anytime soon but I would hope in the future, he will or else why would he be in a relationship with me in the first place?
Let me sum up why I think he's into me and why I'm breaking my head over him. He hasn't let me go and he's the type to not waste his time on things he's not into. He has introduced me to his family (not his parents but they know of me, just his sister and his cousin). Apparently, a couple of his friends know about me so he's told them about me. They said "oh so you're____." He's given me thoughtful and random gifts, not like diamond bracelets, but he gave me useful things (i.e. a really good phone charger out of nowhere and a contact case cause he knows about my contact issues I have.) He will ask me sometimes what do I feel like doing and we'll come to a compromise. The main thing he points out why he likes me though is because we're both silly and have the same sense of humor.
I just hate how why he has to give me such mixed signals. Ive come to accept he avoids being "cheesy" sometimes, maybe thats why he left me hanging but for a little more than one day? Ouch. He can come off as heartless sometimes.
What should I text him back?
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I feel like telling him what you just said..."I get you need your space and I'm trying to give it to you but when you finally texted me, you didn't even have the decency to explain why you went MIA all of a sudden." Plus he didn't consider my sweet text to him. I kind of know what his response would be and it would probably be something like "i didn't know I had to explain something..." then Imma look like the nagging self-centered biotch when all I'm trying to do is make it work for the both of us and he can't see or appreciate that. He's known to be insensitive and he's even admitted he's not "that sweet" so maybe I shouldn't take it personal cause thats just who he is. Complicated.
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Well screw him he's not worth your time at all. This is not English class he's not a book that you have to figure out the context clues and read between the lines in order to figure him out. I know that you really like this guy but let's be real. If you ever get in a relationship with this guy he's going to keep blowing you off because he's stressed out and crap. His work is his main lover and you my dear are just the side hoe (not implying that you are one just using this for an example). Please find someone else a lot women think that a man will change for them. Their still the shit head that you fall in love with at first.
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I know...I'm scared that once I am in a relationship with him and even marriage, do I want to be dealing with this sh*t? cause he doesn't seem to have the desire to change anytime soon but I would hope in the future, he will or else why would he be in a relationship with me in the first place?
Let me sum up why I think he's into me and why I'm breaking my head over him. He hasn't let me go and he's the type to not waste his time on things he's not into. He has introduced me to his family (not his parents but they know of me, just his sister and his cousin). Apparently, a couple of his friends know about me so he's told them about me. They said "oh so you're____." He's given me thoughtful and random gifts, not like diamond bracelets, but he gave me useful things (i.e. a really good phone charger out of nowhere and a contact case cause he knows about my contact issues I have.) He will ask me sometimes what do I feel like doing and we'll come to a compromise. The main thing he points out why he likes me though is because we're both silly and have the same sense of humor.
I just hate how why he has to give me such mixed signals. Ive come to accept he avoids being "cheesy" sometimes, maybe thats why he left me hanging but for a little more than one day? Ouch. He can come off as heartless sometimes.