What should i do with my "friend"?

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Here's the situation: I have a "friend" that we used to tweet each other, have long and nice telephone conversations, and sometimes we chat. The point is we kept in touch. But since 2-3 months ago, he stopped to communicate with me, I didn't mind cause friendship is a double way street, so I could look for him too. So, I called him twice, but he didn't answer my calls, then he told me he was on the other line, so he couldn't answer my call. The another call I made to him, was on Saturday, later he told me he didn't attend his phone on weekends. I tweeted him a couple of times and he politely replied me, and another day I texted him and we chatted for a while very cool. However, he doesn't tweet to me anymore, he doesn't phone me, or nothing else to keep in touch with me.

So, what should I do?
All of your suggestions will be considered.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago | pl

    I felt sorry for myself because I got no tweets, until I saw someone who had no phone.

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  • Faceless
    9 years ago | pl

    Track him down, murder him, then eat his heart. Youll then be together. Always.

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  • DarQness
    9 years ago | pl

    he is probably tired of tweeting and chatting all the time. just give him some space, let him come to you.

    this one relationship i was getting in, i dated her, we talked for a long time on yahoo messenger. everything seemed fine until one day she didn't message me any more. i would try making conversations and she would reply with only one word.

    but that relationship didn't work out. she wanted me to be someone i wasn't and was pretty closed minded.

    the thing is, people can get tired and they will talk less. i even have my moments where i'll delay a response.

    the thing about friends, sometimes they just come and go. now i don't want to make it seem this friendship is doomed. but you should be prepared if it comes to that.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    Dem first wurld problums, doe.

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  • Freedom_
    9 years ago | pl

    Did you happen to offer him oral pleasures in your communications? Some people can be confused or even afraid of sexual gestures from a friend. Maybe you two were just not quite on that level yet or maybe you just need to set the mood for an open discussion to clear up your intentions to him.

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  • Drawingmud
    9 years ago | pl

    Go study

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  • kath2330
    9 years ago | pl

    some people hate tracking them down... but still i dont know your story.. but the 3 months is not enough to call his/her your friend ..... or maybe so say something thats not good thats why... hahah many theories but still if god wants the 2 of you to be frieds FOREVER and EVER well god will make a way..

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  • deepthought33
    9 years ago | pl

    You could probably mention the change and see what he has to say. My first thought is that he is starting a new relationship and that is just taking more of his time and attention.

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    9 years ago | pl

    Stop smothering him.

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