Hi! We are still in dating stage getting to know each other. Thing is she’s went home for 4 months so we really miss each other so wanted to do something special
I always believe in short and sweet things for someone you’re still getting to know and learning what they want and who they are
It sounds a little pessimistic but you want to keep it “easy” for either you or your date to bow out of dating without feeling like there’s “too big of an investment” into something you two aren’t sure you’re completely compatible for yet
If she drops a deal-breaker on you on a lunch date it is much easier to kindly and politely break things off rather than if you were on the first day of a 2-week cruise.
It is also in good dating practice to end a date on a good note, where both parties can go home and think over “liked that, didn’t like that, I could tolerate that, I couldn’t tolerate that” and weigh out whether to go on another one
I’m not trying to turn you away from your idea by any means ! Just explaining the benefits to short-and-sweet dates with someone you’re still getting to know
Hey thank u so much for your reply. I 100% agree with you there! I think I will keep it more sweet and simple. It’s more of a surprise/present for her birthday rather than a date as we have that planned already but again thanks a mill will keep this in mind! :)
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Hi! We are still in dating stage getting to know each other. Thing is she’s went home for 4 months so we really miss each other so wanted to do something special
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I always believe in short and sweet things for someone you’re still getting to know and learning what they want and who they are
It sounds a little pessimistic but you want to keep it “easy” for either you or your date to bow out of dating without feeling like there’s “too big of an investment” into something you two aren’t sure you’re completely compatible for yet
If she drops a deal-breaker on you on a lunch date it is much easier to kindly and politely break things off rather than if you were on the first day of a 2-week cruise.
It is also in good dating practice to end a date on a good note, where both parties can go home and think over “liked that, didn’t like that, I could tolerate that, I couldn’t tolerate that” and weigh out whether to go on another one
I’m not trying to turn you away from your idea by any means ! Just explaining the benefits to short-and-sweet dates with someone you’re still getting to know
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Hey thank u so much for your reply. I 100% agree with you there! I think I will keep it more sweet and simple. It’s more of a surprise/present for her birthday rather than a date as we have that planned already but again thanks a mill will keep this in mind! :)
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For sure mate, good times to y’all