What should i do in this situation?

Hi there,

I’ve just been feeling like I’m always starting or initiating conversations with people, if I stop they stop. I’m often there for multiple people on a daily basis asking them if they are ok, how they are feeling or if they want to hang out. Which they always turn me down or say they are busy doing other stuff which is understandable. I can’t help but feel extremely lonely at times, I only hang out with my cat and stay in bed feeling exhausted from everything. I’m starting to feel like I should given the same energy people give back to me… but whenever I’ve done this people ask me what’s up or if I’m in a mood. I’m just so tired, I feel like I’m constantly performing or entertaining individuals, whenever I show up depressed to places people assume that I’m uninterested or just not wanting to be in their presence. It’s come to a point where I don’t know what to do, like do I prioritise my feelings or just keep getting hurt by people who really don’t deserve my time. I don’t even think my boyfriend really likes me anymore as well, because he doesn’t really talk to me, or even remind me that he loves me. So I don’t even know anymore.. what shall I do?

Thank you for being understanding/participating in this discussion.

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Comments ( 6 )
  • _applejack_

    Well, if your boyfriend wont even talk to you or tell you he loves you, that just shows just how much he likes you. Also, I recommend you find new friends. When I was in school, I only had 1 good friend. All of my other friends treated me the way your friends are treating you.

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  • Tinybird

    At least you have a boyfriend......

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  • Tommythecaty

    Seems like you should find more like minded friends.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I miss having a cat, and hanging out with him.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    I think if it really seems like they never get back to you you should contact them less. Friendships are a two way street. Usually they hit you up from time to time as well. You dont want to be the only one calling and texting them.

    The comment about your boyfriend makes me wonder if you are being too paranoid about it though. A lot of guys dont like to talk about feelings.

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety

    Your fault.

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