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What should I do if I’m straight and have gay urges but I am too nervous to do them?
I am 53 good looking male that has been married for 30 yrs, sex with my wife is always good, I do have a gay bud that I have been seeing at least once a week for 20 years, he is very passionate when he sucks my dick, takes his time tongue pleasures my balls my scrotum and rims me for a solid hour, and swallows every drop. there is no woman that can compare to his skills, he gives me mind shattering orgasims every time I see him and all I have to do is lay back and enjoy, I will never stop letttng him suck me off
Yah buddy hang in there. I have been exploring my gay side this past year and believe me - it can be down right perfect. No need to buy dinner - no need to talk bs - you exchange a few words and get down to business - I think I am in heaven -
The term "gay urges" is kind of vague here. Do you mean anal stuff in general? Because plenty of straight men enjoy that stuff. Nor do all gay guys do anal. There's literally a g-spot there, though, so there's nothing abnormal about being interested in that type of stuff.
Do you mean feeling attracted to guys? Getting crushes on them? Wanting to do certain things with dudes? Etc? It's hard to always say, but you could be bi if you also have attraction to women. You don't have to have equal interest in both sexes to be bi, it just means you have some amount of feelings towards both. If that's the case, I think it's normal to be nervous about translating that into real relationships (if that's what you want) or confronting it.
I say go for it. Your most likely bicurious not gay. I was always curious myself. I tried it and find out I love it.
Find someone in the same boat who feels the same and see if he will 69 with you...this way there will be no guilt involved...I would like to try it at least once and I bet is better than you think.
You should embrace your gay urges. Trust me, your prostate will be like DisneyLand when all said and done. An endless and magical feelings of pleasure when your getting your cheeks pounded.
Go to adam4adam. Create an acct. It's totally discreet. It's how I met my bf
if you have... gay urges... youre not straight. if youre still attracted to girls, youre bisexual.