Well i don't know how qualified i am to give you this advice seeing that i've never been in this situation but my best advice to you is to back off. His wife just died and no matter how much you love him he loved her first and definitely needs time to deal with his own feelings and those of his daughter. And honestly she has every right to hate you. In her eyes you tore their family apart and as a result her mother died. the whole "friend" relationship between you and her will take a substantial amount of time to develop if it develops at all. Stop sending her gifts because she's going to get the idea that whenever something goes wrong she's suppose to be rewarded. But like i said my advice might not be the most helpful.
What shall I do?
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Well i don't know how qualified i am to give you this advice seeing that i've never been in this situation but my best advice to you is to back off. His wife just died and no matter how much you love him he loved her first and definitely needs time to deal with his own feelings and those of his daughter. And honestly she has every right to hate you. In her eyes you tore their family apart and as a result her mother died. the whole "friend" relationship between you and her will take a substantial amount of time to develop if it develops at all. Stop sending her gifts because she's going to get the idea that whenever something goes wrong she's suppose to be rewarded. But like i said my advice might not be the most helpful.