What's wrong with me!!!!

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Well I am a 21 year old virgin that has never even kissed a guy before. Because of this it has really hurt my self esteem I feel that I'm ugly whenever my friends and I would go out to clubs we would leave with different walking them out to the car exchanging numbers and everything I alwaysed felt like the 3rd wheel. The closest I got to a dude talking to me was them asking me about my home gurl. I knw that I'm not ugly becuz I'm told that I'm beautiful by alot of ppl. It's like guys r scared of me or something. Sometimes I wonder if there is a curse or something on me ugghhh I no weird huh lol. Even when we would go out like 3 guys n 3 girls the guy for me would jus kinda talk to everybody but me. It really hurts me alot I just don't understand what's wrong with me. Is this normal guys

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  • poisonandmore
    12 years ago

    be the first person to say something

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  • teardrop06
    13 years ago

    I get this problem all the time. When I am in a club with my friend guys never want to dance with me or talk to me unless they just want to get down my pants. Then if we go in a group the guy that is there for me is just to distract me so his friend can hook up with my friend. I don't get told that I am ugly but I get told all the time that I am not hot. I was get over looked because of this and the whole pretend you are self confident don't work because I have done this. I have just accepted the fact recently that only hot girls get the attention and girls like me get the shadows and the guys that want me only do because I am just a last resort.

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  • Mastersash
    13 years ago

    trolling!

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  • lostsurfer
    13 years ago

    Many guys are intimidated by beautiful women or think they have no chance with a girl so don't even bother. My twin sister's 21 and also deals with the same problem most guys just think she's stuck up which she not i guess its just peoples first impressions.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I'm sorry. That must kind of stink. I think just live your life. Now think; there are over a million people out there. Now knowing if you are a guy or straight guy or girl, I'll just give you a little word of wisdom. Be who you are. I bet I'm not
    The only one to say this but there has to be someone who loves you for who you are. Maybe it will be on your trip to abu dhabi. Maybe it will be walkin your dog in the park. Best of luck, hun.

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    • mjh1288
      13 years ago

      I used to have that problem too because i didnt have much self confidence, but i started workin out and got in alot better shape(i used to be tha fat guy lol) long story short my confidence went thru the roof and i now get more attention than any of my friends, every girl i see now that looks interesting i talk to her even when shes pumpin gas at tha local gas station and that one turned out pretty damn good lol ;)

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  • traumaqueen
    14 years ago

    People can taste your insecurity. It's a turnoff, and can be misconstrued as being stuck-up. Fake your way out of your comfort zone.

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  • sgbslp
    14 years ago

    Ask your friends to be brutally honest and tell you what't wrong. You'd be surprised to find that others see you differently that you think. Everyone thought I was a snob so I make extra effort to be friendly. I really wasn't

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      if you really weren't why did people think you were

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  • whyhellothere
    14 years ago

    Smile. I had the same problem... Even if your beautiful, if you aren't smiling, you won't be approachable. :)!

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  • mikedeez84
    14 years ago

    I have no idea...but you should give me our number so I can find out ;)

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  • mmr138
    14 years ago

    Maybe they see your insecurities. Start acting like the hottest girl in the room and they may start treatin you that way!

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  • gadget
    14 years ago

    I get the same thing :P but I'm just intimidating. I've gotten that I'm cute, but it's my style that's diff. I'm a psychobilly. But hey, if it bothers you, then try to turn things up!!

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  • Cheeseman912
    14 years ago

    I'm a 17 year old guy who did stuggle with the same thing and I found someone. I know it is hard but u gotta give it time and and be in a positive mind set I know it might sound crazy but just do it. It worked for me ; )

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