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Im 18 years old. My fiance and I just had sex for the first time. I was a virgin. No matter which way we did it he couldn't get me off. But it doesn't make since cause he can get me off using his fingers but not during sex. Is there something wrong with me because I don't believe that he is doing anything wrong.
There's nothing wrong with you. When he uses his finger or mouth on you, you're getting direct stimulation to your clitoris. Vaginal intercourse doesn't necessarily do that. It all depends on how he does it. Ask him to try different angles of entry, speeds and so on. Be careful how you discuss this with him so he doesn't feel like you're criticizing his sexual ability (even though you are). Men are very sensitive about that, especially at your age!
Anyway, I think what you're experiencing is fairly common, and he just needs to take the time to learn what works for you and what doesn't. And PLEASE - the two of you should resolve this before getting married. Otherwise you run the risk of being one of those women who never really enjoys sex because her man doesn't care or know better.