What's wrong with being a little shy? it is cute af

I don't understand why confidence is everything...I know having confidence is a good quality to have especially for your self esteem.

I just don't get why it's looked down upon when it comes to dating?

I'm bi and personally I think it's adorable if a guy or girl acts or is shy, not painfully shy though.

I think a touch of shyness is endearing. It shows ones vulnerability and people like this tend to be less cocky and arogant than ones with extreme confidence

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  • I think what you are referring to is the trait of being bashful.

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    • Good point! Didn't think of that lol

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  • I have been seeing a girl I met just a few weeks ago. It's her first time to be intimate with another girl, and her shyness is absolutely adorable!

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    • nawww

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  • I find it very appealing as well.

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    • shyness?

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      • Yes.

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        • cool

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  • I've been really shy my whole life and I sometimes hate it because when a guy shows interest in me I clam up and head for the nearest exit. I've avoided chances at relationships because of my damn shyness and it's something I really hate about myself. It's a horrible feeling I wish I didn't have :(

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    • That's more than shyness..sadly that's a form of social anxiety

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  • Bambi is adorable!

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    • I used to love Bambi lol

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  • WHY is your sexuality even relevant?

    Anyway, shy is just fine.

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    • meh idk

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      • There are shy people, there are outgoing people. There's nothing wrong with it, trust me.

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  • Personally I find confidence to be preferred but that's probably because I'm pretty shy

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