What's the youngest a 30 year old woman could date?

Choose the youngest age acceptable that a 30 year old female should date

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  • Legally, you can date anyone above the age of consent where you live.

    But if you want more than wild monkey sex, a thirty year-old woman should probably look for a guy a little older than that, since the majority of guys in their teens and early twenties are immature dickheads.

    Women dating much younger men can be difficult for social reasons as well, since people can be very judgemental and leap to all sorts of conclusions about what's going on. Unless both people are very secure about themselves and the relationship, that can create tensions.

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  • I would say any age that you are comfortable with as long as they are legal adults. What may be ok for one person may not be ok with another. It's a personal choice that's yours to make.

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  • Legally, 18. Socially, I'm not sure. I personally don't really care for other people's relationships, but I know people who prefer the 'half plus seven' rule. In your case, 15 + 7 = 22.

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    • 16 is legal in most states

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      • Yeah but 16 is really young

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        • Yeah but it sounds like she likes young guys. It's not as weird to me when the young person in the relationship is a male. Its weirder when its a 30 year old man with a 16 year old to me.

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      • I'm in a state like that, and I believe at least where I am, the cutoff for dating 16/17-year-olds is 25, and any older than that and they must be at least 18. I'm not sure if that's the case everywhere that the age of consent is 16.

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  • You can be with me im 18 so it is legal

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  • Are you asking what's socially ok.
    Legally ok.
    Or what might feel good?
    A man's sex drive peaks around 17.
    A woman's around 33.
    Both are horny as hell, want to, and can.
    Go at it several times.
    Each and every day.
    If it's sex you're after, that's a match.

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  • Ladies, age should not matter if you are a good match. As long as he is an adult. I am male and I was married to a woman who was 16 years my senior and she respected me as a person as much as herself.

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  • When i was 17 i had a 32 year old girlfriend that i lived with

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  • Legally, 18. But there would be a serious maturity gap with most 18 year old guys. So, I would say early/mid 20s (e.g. 22 to 25 or so) and older would probably be the best in terms of a compatible relationship.

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  • Personally, when I was 30 I was in a relationship with an older guy but if I wasn't, the lowest I would have gone is like 27.

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  • 16 in the UK

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  • 18. Although only girls that age can get away with dating someone older.

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  • It depends on what you prefer, older clever guys -then I recommend over 24 min.-
    Or simply a nice fit guy who is energetic, and you don’t have a child planned for 6-8 years - then 20 years old should be the ones

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  • For the most part an 18 year old. But some states are younger than that.

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  • I would say when you're 30 then date who you want, but for a long term partner, go for someone the same age as you or older. My mum's husband who was 13 years younger than her left her, and her friend, who has a husband who is 10 years younger than her, just found out her husband had been cheating for years. Men are likely to wonder if they have an older woman.

    Also Idk if you want kids or not, but if you do then I'd really think about settling down asap by 30.

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    • Hm my parents are 11 years apart. My Mother is 11 years older. They are still madly in love. Priyanka Chopra just married Jonas also about 10 years apart and they seem like theyll thrive together.

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      • How old is your mother? Ye tbf I am giving anecdotal evidence, but from what I've seen, it doesn't seem to work.

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        • My mother is 63 my father is 52. They met when she was 33 and he was 22. Been married for 30 years.

          My sister is married to a guy 8 years younger for 5 years now and they have a daughter together. My aunt is 13 years older than my uncle too. Lots of people marry younger and it works. Idk

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  • Dating and friends with benefits are two separate things its unlimited with friends with benefits but I put a 2+- buffer on dating.

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  • 18. That's the legally lowest age any adult can date, in my country at least.

    I try not to judge anything between consenting adults too much. Though, it is important to be conscious of the age gap at times.

    Young people can often be easily influenced by older people whom they love and respect. It's fine, as long as no one is being taken advantage of.

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