Why are you arguing with her so much? I can understand you both. But there are people, whom I believe katywompus is speaking of, who come off very self-righteously smug when they talk about how they don't do drugs while giving off a judgmental vibe. People who press for explanations are just curious. And when they are denied an explanation, it drives them crazy. It's almost like a little game. Like you're gossiping with someone, and that person refuses to tell you what the outside party said. What's wrong with having questions? It's when they become annoying while inappropriately invasive with their desire for an explanation that it becomes a problem. If the non-users in question state "I just do not want to do it and that's that" then that's fine. Usually the "I don't want to" with no explanation is motivated by fear. Which is totally understandably normal, but they're probably afraid to admit that.
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Why are you arguing with her so much? I can understand you both. But there are people, whom I believe katywompus is speaking of, who come off very self-righteously smug when they talk about how they don't do drugs while giving off a judgmental vibe. People who press for explanations are just curious. And when they are denied an explanation, it drives them crazy. It's almost like a little game. Like you're gossiping with someone, and that person refuses to tell you what the outside party said. What's wrong with having questions? It's when they become annoying while inappropriately invasive with their desire for an explanation that it becomes a problem. If the non-users in question state "I just do not want to do it and that's that" then that's fine. Usually the "I don't want to" with no explanation is motivated by fear. Which is totally understandably normal, but they're probably afraid to admit that.
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