What's the best way to discipline a child?

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  • And i almost forgot a few important elements. The best way to teach the child to behave is using the reward system. For example, you give the child a task,while promising a reward. And if the child successfully finishes it, the you reward him/her. VERY IMPORTANT! Keep your promise and reward the child for good behavior. This will teach the child that, in order to get things, you have to offer something, to work for it.At the same time the child will have more ambition because at the end of the road, the reward will come. For that, you need to be financially established because rewarding the child will cost a lot.That's why i think that people should think about having a child only after they are financially independent and have everything sorted out regarding their career. Now keep in mind that, this is NOT spoiling. Because the child has to do something in order to be rewarded. Spoiling is if you give the child everything they want unconditionally. That would be a big mistake!

    And most importantly, don't be violent with the child. A good raising of your tone should be enough, followed by not rewarding the child in case of misbehavior.

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    • These kids don't understand anything. Some of them are just begging to be hurt and humiliated. If I had a 2-4 year old in my control u better believe she'd be disciplined or humiliated. Probably both just because I can hurt and hit her and she can't defend herself.

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    • I believe in spanking but your ways fascinate me. You changed my view on this topic. Perhaps, have you ever written a book on children or life?

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