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After I admitted to my self that I wasn't happy at all withy life or never was happy , I noticed that I shed some weight , like I feel lighter. So I no longer feel unhappy but I still am not happy,I just feel like o.k. What ever. Oh well. But what do i do next. I am somewhat optimistic about things . So lets see what comes about
if you cant be decent than get lost..you dont want me to get upset..bad for you
@ Guess who you are 100% right and thank you for you and I am going for a motorcycle license before or after my birthday next month I will let you know when I get it
You shouldn't care about gaining others' approval and you should just do what you want to and do what you like.
Study and/or get a job doing something you enjoy, do more things that you enjoy in your free time, hang out in places where people with similar interests like to go, etc.
I know it's easier said than done, but you should change your lifestyle to one by which you gain self-gratification while remaining within the boundaries of "normal".
For example, Some of my interests are: flying, riding motorcycles, watching anime, playing computer games, and hacking. So it would make sense for me to become a either a pilot, motocross or superbike rider, animator, game developer, or computer security expert while doing the others in my free time.
You should also get negative people that like to blame you for things or judge you out of your life. Don't associate with people that don't accept you the way you are.
I don't know the exact details of your situation, but that's the best advice I can give.
Ok got thanks for responding . I am trying to fix my life as best as I can
The mental shots I took from people.
Me being blamed for things I had nothing to do with at all, type o from above statement
I just happened to see this. You have to hit 'reply' for me or whoever to get the message. I sort of know where you're coming from. I'm not very good at explaining things but it seems like you're dwelling on it too much. I know its hard not to but you have to try. Material things and a girlfriend wont make your problems go away, maybe just help distract you for a while. Whatever people have done to you or blamed you for that you know you had nothing to with should be left behind you. I know this isn't much help but I've been miserable before, I've got problems, I just deal the best I can. I do what i can to keep my mind off the stressful nonsense. Music, hobbies, that stuff.
At dirty Birdie For years I have been unhappy I have had this feeling for a very long time but didn't know how to come to terms with it didn't know how to address it didn't know how to deal with it I thought having a girlfriend would make me happy and it does beats being alone myself I thought having a nice jeep with big rims on it the right to bear arms and fancy clothes would make me happy and the Fancy clothes would make me happy and the listings do but it was the mental Sharsted I took from people from the reason it was the own fear blame placed upon me it was me being responsible or held responsible for things that had nothing to do with me in no way shape or form Basically this past year has been hell &if you read my previous post blog You will understand why I have come to this point ,now you have more than enough to go on