You, dear girl, are listening to the wrong voices inside your head.
Firstly, you are a serial monogamist. It is true that you will never be happy with one guy. But, it is very destructive to go back to a guy after you have cheated on him. Learn ethics of breaking up first before you follow your sexual whims.
Secondly, somebody instilled values for a family while you were growing up. These are the wrong values for you, and if you ever have a family it will be doomed to misery. Many many people are happy with no kids and happy with a new mate every 5 years or so. They live with the adult realization and comfort that the values society places on them are not what will ever work in their lives.
Good luck. You are a good person with great potential, but a traditional path for you thru life will be a train wreck.
What's love and who to be with: need help
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You, dear girl, are listening to the wrong voices inside your head.
Firstly, you are a serial monogamist. It is true that you will never be happy with one guy. But, it is very destructive to go back to a guy after you have cheated on him. Learn ethics of breaking up first before you follow your sexual whims.
Secondly, somebody instilled values for a family while you were growing up. These are the wrong values for you, and if you ever have a family it will be doomed to misery. Many many people are happy with no kids and happy with a new mate every 5 years or so. They live with the adult realization and comfort that the values society places on them are not what will ever work in their lives.
Good luck. You are a good person with great potential, but a traditional path for you thru life will be a train wreck.