What is your sexuality?

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I want to know what is your sexual orientation. To clarify what Asexual is, it is the lack of desire to have sexual intimacy with people, but you still want romantic relationships,and those romantic attractions can be towards men or women or both. Asexual Aromantic is when you have no romantic or sexual desire towards anyone, or anything.

Also I have another question do you think you could have a intimate relationship with someone without sex?

By the way I am a Bisexual Asexual.

Sexual homosexual 38
Asexual homosexual 4
Asexual bisexual 15
Asexual and Aromantic 20
Sexual Bisexual 148
Sexual Hetereosexual 199
Other 28
Asexual Hetereosexual 34
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  • Shrunk
    10 years ago | pl

    I don't know.. Panromantic demisexual? That just sounds ridiculous though...

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    OP, i don't think you fully understand the meaning of these terms. You can't be both bisexual and asexual.

    Asexual = lack of sexual attraction

    Bisexual = Attraction to both genders

    If you're even slightly attracted to people, you're not asexual. You probably just have a very low sex drive.
    I think the word you're looking for to describe yourself is biromantic asexual.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I meant Asexual biromantic >.< and like i said asexuals have a romantic attraction towards people but not actual desire to have sex and yes I have a low sex drive it is non existent that is why it is asexual as in no sex drive lol I want to have romantic relationships sex just doesn't interest me at all when Im in one though I don't mind kissing cuddling and holding hands but sex im just like meh :/

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      • kittykat9930
        10 years ago

        I feel the exact same way! I prefer being all mushy and affecionate but sex wears off on me fast and I don't want it very often at all. =/

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        But do you feel something when you're kissing someone?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          nothing really I dont mind it but honestly I could go without it like like cuddling though and hold hands but I just feel close to the person it I doesnt really make me feel like having sex though its really hard to describe really I cant really put it into words that well

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            I'm kinda the same, although i'm not asexual. But i'm not turned on and don't feel like having sex when cuddling or kissing. It's just like a warm feeling minus the sexual thing.

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          • nevertoreturn
            8 years ago

            Oops I voted aromantic asexual as I thought that meant you liked the romantic side of a relationship

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      • strangethingshappen
        9 years ago

        Yea Im pretty much the same…

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      • Couman
        10 years ago

        Ah. Thanks for clarifying that. I was honestly confused.

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    • KeddersPrincess
      10 years ago

      If you're slightly attracted to people, they call the grey asexual.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Well it's stupid. We should stop creating so many subcategories for every damn sexual orientation. Too many stupid terms and labels!

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        • strangethingshappen
          9 years ago

          Agreed! Its gotten totally redic! Why cant we simply say " We love who we love"!

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        • KeddersPrincess
          10 years ago

          No. I agree with it. Labels are just names that you give to something in order to describe it. For example, I am a heteromantic grey-asexual. Instead of telling someone that I am a person who has zero desire to have sex with someone but feels a slight attraction to men while also feeling romantic connections at times, it's much easier to say that I am a heteromantic grey-asexual. In my opinion, labels are only bad if they are used to judge or discriminate against someone. A label is simply a name given to something. Nothing more. I'm pretty glad about it, actually, because I've searched a long time to figure out myself sexually and then I found people who were just like me. It helped me make since of myself.

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          • linchpin
            10 years ago | pl

            I'm an ambidextrous, bilingual, bifunctional, aromantic, aromatic, bipolar, biangular, polar opposite, anti intimate heterosexual.

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            • strangethingshappen
              9 years ago

              Lmao!

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        10 years ago

        Im not though Ive never felt any sexual attraction honestly never ever not even the slightest

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        • KeddersPrincess
          10 years ago

          And that's fine. I'm just talking about the labels.

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  • thesugarbitch
    10 years ago

    Very sexual Heterosexual.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    Your Mom!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      best comment ever this unlocks the mysteries of the universe people thumbs this up man I know I am ^__^

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    • CreativeThinker
      10 years ago

      thats rude!

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Richard Simmons licks his lips under your bed while you sleep at night.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Extremely sexual heterosexual sex addict.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      You're very abstinent for a sex addict...

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals
        10 years ago

        Not my choice

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          I'm sorry man...

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          Try craigslist or backpage.

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          • GoraIntoDesiGals
            10 years ago

            Those things have like 1000 men for every woman. Worthless.

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            • [Old Memory]
              10 years ago

              True, but you can buy a hooker on backpage if you have money. I never said it would be free.

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    • bishophollett
      10 years ago

      hey im here with ya and we will do them all big small young and old lol

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      Kudos for honesty.

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  • Tommythecat.
    10 years ago

    "straightish"

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    • anti-hero
      10 years ago

      Ish? Is the skeleton in your closet a weiner in your butt?

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      • Tommythecat.
        10 years ago

        Nah it's just an appropriation.

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  • Dot123
    10 years ago

    Asexual heterosexual pansexual semi metrosexual

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Your options don't make sense.
    You made choices like "Asexual hetero/homo/bi sexual"
    I'm thinking you meant asexual/heteroromantic, homoromantic or biromantic

    I'm heterodemisexual/aromantic which means I am attracted to certain females once I get to know them but I do not understand romance.
    This is hard for me because most women either want a relationship to have sex or a one night stand.
    I enjoy having female company as well as sex but I cannot imagine someone I could be in a full time relationship with. I'm not compatible with people.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Heterodemisexual/aromantic? ... My head is spinning. What are you? Some kind of hybrid?

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        No. Demisexual means someone who only is sexually attracted to someone once they know them.

        So I'm a straight guy who is sexually attracted to girls once I get to know them but do not understand romantic love and don't want to be in a relationship with anyone.

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          But you can have a strictly sexual relationship. What's wrong with that?

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          • jass4444
            10 years ago

            Absolutely nothing!!!!

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            Nothing except women generally want more out of it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Yeah i don't know the technical terms lol I'm just doing a survey because I'm curious

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        I don't want to sound rude but google it next time you make a poll so the options are more clear.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          Id probaby still screw up somehow so whatever people know what i mean and that's what matters well thanks for the advice ^__^

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  • SerialSinner
    10 years ago

    Old rock stars, that's my sexuality.

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    • lolol555
      10 years ago

      Freddie Mercury?

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    • handsignals
      10 years ago

      That's sad.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I do love it when people make questions primarily asked due to them wanting to express their own sexuality, believing that people gravitate this feeling of awe.

    But meh, I'll play to it, even if I know that this was primarily for you to express your sexuality than it is to know everyone elses.

    I wouldn't say Asexual, however I have a low sex drive that is triggered by specific thing. Do I believe I am anything other than heterosexual? Possible, however I have a heterosexual lean, as I am sure most people have some sort of sexual attraction to those of their same gender, even if it is just one person in their life time, ofcourse this may not be extended to everyone, or perhaps I am wrong.

    Personally, I do not believe you as an Asexual, as most people that claim to be such a thing tend not to be, they either just have a low sex drive, other personal reasons, or tend to think it gives them some sort of special standing.

    Yes, I am saying that most of you, if you are reading this claiming to be asexual, that you are not asexual, maybe a few are, but the majority of you claiming to be are not. Only around one percent of people are actually asexual, and so many claim to be asexual here that it is just unbelievable.

    Who knows, maybe you are one of the one percents, however I do doubt it - you're not the first here to claim such a thing due to a lack of understanding of your sexuality or seeking some sort of attention, nor will you be the last.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      I think it may be because you are on a website that attracts people with abnormal traits.
      Another example is there is a high population of people with Asperger's here when they are under %1 of the population. Other rare personality traits will be common here.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        10 years ago

        Im confused i dont have aspergers i dotn understand what you are trying to say im confused not to be rude Im just confused ? can you clarify ?

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          I was explaining to itduz, who doubts there are so many asexuals here, that this website attracts people with traits that are uncommon in the general public. I used aspergers as an example because it seems %10-20 of users here have said to have been diagnosed in other polls when they are only about a half percent of the general population.

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          • juniperlei
            10 years ago

            Oh ok thanks so much for explaining ^__^

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I am asexual and I know for sure I have never experienced sexual attraction I never even think about sex Ive seen porn (i was young and curious) and it did nothing and continues to do nothing I never see someone and think about sex I hardly even notice if someone is attractive im pretty sure Im a REAL Asexual I dont claim to be one to be special or something like that I just am I am happy that I have finally found out who I am and that there is nothing wrong with me or any other person with a different sexuality and I am just expressing that by making a poll so people can share thier feelings on the matter ^___^ Also I have to explain asexuality because a lot of people dont know what that means or what aromantic means I was just providing information.I openly declare my sexuality because it would be unfair to make a poll and keep mine a secret and also I want to know if they think they could have a relationship like one without sex or very little of it because it is so hard for to find partners girlfriends or boyfriends when I tell them before we start dating that Im asexual it usually always ends there and its depressing they think im lying or am a prude or just faking liking them so those are the reasons I posted this not for attention or anything like that and I honestly don't see what is wrong with my post and openly saying who I am and letting people give thier opinions also well thanks for your comment anyways glad I could clarify for you ^__^

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Also why did you put Asexual with bigger letters? It looks like the other sexualities are just subcategories.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      i just looked up sexuality and picked a picture that fit it that wasnt some nude picture i am in no way suggesting that any sexuality is any better than any other and I did not make that picture or chart or whatever :/

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  • Indemand
    10 years ago

    Asexual pansexual

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  • OCDC
    10 years ago

    Bisexual, but probably hetero-romantic if I'm going to be pedantic about it. Really, the Kinsey scale is my preferred method of self-identification.

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  • something_weird
    10 years ago

    Panromantic Asexual.

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  • Sunshine:)
    10 years ago

    This poll is confusing. Where's the straight choice?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Heterosexual means "straight"

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago

    I guess I am boring. I have a penis and I like vagina. Nothing fancy at our house, we are plain and simple folk.

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  • GreyWulfen
    10 years ago

    I'd say homoromantic bisexual. Sounds a little weird, though.

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  • squirrelgirl
    10 years ago

    I'm bisexual with a high sex drive.

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  • Ibelievethis
    10 years ago

    Very highly sexed hetrosexual. xxx

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  • Ilovewinter12
    10 years ago

    Pansexual Asexual.
    I know that sounds kinda weird, but that's what I'm like.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    10 years ago

    Heteromantic grey-asexual.

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    Sex is the only thing that keeps us from going completely "mad". Of course, it could be asexual, bisexual, heterosexual,or homosexual. There are others of course.Then we have to consider Oedipus Rex. He had it all in the family so to speak.

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  • uhhyeahidk
    10 years ago

    very glad to see asexual up there!

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    The label for my sexuality isn't something I give much thought to; I like what I like and that's as much as a think about it. I suppose I'm bi.

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    • shuggy-chan
      10 years ago

      Pedrosexual =D

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        Who's Pedro?

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        • shuggy-chan
          10 years ago

          its like Pedo, but I was making it more scientific sounding

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          • dom180
            10 years ago

            I draw the line a way before that point :P

            I was thinking in Napoleon Dynamite terms for a second though...

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          • RoseIsabella
            10 years ago

            Aw hell no, child! Ain't nuthin funny bout them damn pedos.

            Now Pedrosexual sounds like somebody who's into the landscapers or whatever...

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