I wonder at the psychology of that. I know in my more repressed Christian days I would find myself thinking of girls as sluts and have since changed my views completely. Having a lot of sex is only bad if the person is being unsafe about it or doing it from an unhealthy place, in which case they need help not judgement.
But Ive often wondered if it generally is the more repressed women bashing the women who are open about their sexuality because they wish they could do the same thing. Thats what it was for me, I was so afraid of what I wanted that I violently opposed it. (Haha, I hope that doesnt make it sound like I dress trashy cause I definitely dont)
Its funny to see this up here today, I just made a post last week about this kinda thing and how my views are unconventional. :P
I kind of took notice to it when astory like this came up about a month ago, during thesame time someone on Facebook was saying to me that certain females she knows are "sluts". And thenI started to take notice to how many females actually call other females sluts, yet theblame for it gets shifted to men.
In all my experience only one guy ever told me he was slutty, and it was funny seeing a big guy back down from a small girl when I had something to say in repsonse. XD
What is your attitude toward sluts?
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I wonder at the psychology of that. I know in my more repressed Christian days I would find myself thinking of girls as sluts and have since changed my views completely. Having a lot of sex is only bad if the person is being unsafe about it or doing it from an unhealthy place, in which case they need help not judgement.
But Ive often wondered if it generally is the more repressed women bashing the women who are open about their sexuality because they wish they could do the same thing. Thats what it was for me, I was so afraid of what I wanted that I violently opposed it. (Haha, I hope that doesnt make it sound like I dress trashy cause I definitely dont)
Its funny to see this up here today, I just made a post last week about this kinda thing and how my views are unconventional. :P
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I kind of took notice to it when astory like this came up about a month ago, during thesame time someone on Facebook was saying to me that certain females she knows are "sluts". And thenI started to take notice to how many females actually call other females sluts, yet theblame for it gets shifted to men.
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In all my experience only one guy ever told me he was slutty, and it was funny seeing a big guy back down from a small girl when I had something to say in repsonse. XD
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It's not actually that suprising. It's morally incorrect nowadays to even stand up to a woman, even in self defense if you're a man.