What is your attitude toward sluts?
| Are great for using. They are worthless | 23 | |
| Make great sex objects | 49 | |
| Don't care about them | 53 | |
| Are annoying | 21 | |
| Die sluts! DIE!!! | 23 |
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| Are great for using. They are worthless | 23 | |
| Make great sex objects | 49 | |
| Don't care about them | 53 | |
| Are annoying | 21 | |
| Die sluts! DIE!!! | 23 |
I'm a guy and I wish society didn't put a stigma on women who like to have sex while congratulating men on it. Double standards are ridiculous. I really don't understand why people condemn promiscuous women so much.
Thanks for your sexism.
Having sex a lot makes a woman a slut, and not having sex makes a women prudent. That's great. Nice to know I don't have the freedom to live a happy life without my lifestyle being judged. If a woman (or a man, for that matter) is happy with their sex life, then that's fine. Women who have undesired sex for attention are trying to fill something usually, and I really don't think calling someone a "slut" is going to help matters. I'm sick of seeing people shun sex life. Sex is a wonderful thing, and if you enjoy and like having it, then that's fine. That's how it should be, and people should stop judging women just because they like to have sex a lot. It's none of your business.
I believe it's not only defined as women who have (a lot of) sex with (a lot of) people, but also woman who dress and carry themselves in a certain way that makes the OP feel like they look like sluts.
On another note, you say "Having sex a lot makes a woman a slut, and not having sex makes a woman prudent." I'm not sure you purposely meant to only mention those extremes, but just wanted to put out here that there is also the 'only have sex with current boyfriend' type of woman.
"there is also the 'only have sex with current boyfriend' type of woman. "
Yep, that was me. Always wondered what I was classified as. Granted, now I am married, so that boyfriend is now husband. I LOVE sex (2-3 times a day) but I usually have it with only one male at a time, in a relationship (in this case within a marriage). I would also have sex with good friends but that was rare.
Still wondering what I would have been or would be considered o.o
The word slut wasn't made as an offensive term, it was just to explain a woman that has sex a lot, etc. It's today's society that has made the word "slut" a term to be ashamed of. Kind of like the word bastard, it was used to describe a child born to an unmarried couple, most people are born like that now, and it's "turned" in to an insult word.
Secondly. I just want to say this part lastly. It's mainly women that call other women sluts, not men calling women sluts. I have not seen a man call a woman a slut ever, but I have constantly heard females call other females a slut. I hate that women are blaming men for the word being used to describe women that have sex a lot in a negative manner, when it is women doing it to eachother. So yes, people need to stop judging them, specificly other women need to stop doing it.
They are allowed to be "sluts" if they want, not anybody elses choice. Nothing wrong with it either. But understand it's females usually saying it to other females.
I am aware, but I see both genders do it equally. Understand I want to be fair towards both the sexes and how they are represented. I believe the word slut actually is why men are thought of as pigs who do nothing but fuck other women too. I think the word slut has really caused sexism for both races.
Wrong, really, just wrong. I have not seen one man call a woman a slut, where as I have seen countless females call eachother a slut, and I have moved to several locations, so I know it isn't just one certain area. The word "slut" means woman that basically has sex with a lot of people. Is it bad to be a slut? No. But as plainly seen from here, guys like "sluts", and given that slut is now seen to as n insult, not just a description, males are less likely to call a girl that has something they like about her, something that would insult her.
It isn't equal if you are saying both genders do it equally when one gender does it more than the other. It would be as equal as me saying that both genders are equal on how many murderers there are in both genders...That isn't equal at all, because the female gender doesn't have as much murderers in their gender as males do, so saying they're equally bad as the ones that are actually worst for doing such a thing isn't equall at all.
The word slut wasn't made for an insult, it was a word to describe a woman with a lot of sexual activity, not a word to be used for ghate. Where as comparing men to pigs is an insult.
The words slut has definetly caused sexism for both genders, mainly de to women saying it so much and then blaming men for it.
I actually think this is a very logical answer. Thank you for this.
I guess with slut, it is as you said, not a bad thing, but has been altered to become something horrible. It's why I don't like it. Slut now means someone who is a shitty person for enjoying sex, and as you said, there's nothing wrong with being a slut, but when you hear the world slut you usually are hearing people disregaurding someone for being a sexually active person.
The more I think of it, the more I hear women use it as an insult during a pety argument. So I agree that I need with you, the more I think this over. I still would rather not use the word myself, and I still find this post to be pretty sexist. I know problems for sexism are brought up by both genders, since I see both genders buy into stereotypes, especially females who like to say they prefer to befriend boys because females are "too dramatic" for them. So I'll admit I was acting stupid with what I said, and I appreciate your comments. It's nice to argue with people who don't agree with my viewpoints that are at least intelligent about it so that I am given a chance to understand why they believe what they believe and give me a chance to debate with them.
I agree, this poll is sexist. It's the way they have presented theword "slut" that gives it an insulting feel to it. I wouldn't use the word myself to be honest, because I know that most of the world see it as an insult rather than a word to describe such a woman. Don't worry, you weren't being stupid. We all sometimesneed to discuss things in order to understand a little bit more.
Thanks for your calm contribution to out discussion, it's something quite rare on this site nowadays. It'll be nice to have someone like you on this site.
I wonder at the psychology of that. I know in my more repressed Christian days I would find myself thinking of girls as sluts and have since changed my views completely. Having a lot of sex is only bad if the person is being unsafe about it or doing it from an unhealthy place, in which case they need help not judgement.
But Ive often wondered if it generally is the more repressed women bashing the women who are open about their sexuality because they wish they could do the same thing. Thats what it was for me, I was so afraid of what I wanted that I violently opposed it. (Haha, I hope that doesnt make it sound like I dress trashy cause I definitely dont)
Its funny to see this up here today, I just made a post last week about this kinda thing and how my views are unconventional. :P
I kind of took notice to it when astory like this came up about a month ago, during thesame time someone on Facebook was saying to me that certain females she knows are "sluts". And thenI started to take notice to how many females actually call other females sluts, yet theblame for it gets shifted to men.
oh shut up feminists. this site is fucking full of you. don't you know that only you are whining?
Just let them they are worse than women if they see a girl showing some skin she is automatically labeled as a slut I say people over react and whine not everybody wants a romantic sexual relationship as long as you are careful not to catch a nasty infection then more power to you.
Having sex alot is alright if You be careful about it.
That doesn't make a girl a slut.
A slut is a girl who goes up to a random guy on the street, and just basicly throws herself at him and just wants to fuck a random guy. A slut is someone who will fuck someone they don't even know and fuck so many guys it's not even funny. A slut is someone who fucks 15 guys a week.
THAT'S a slut
I don't mind if a slut is a slut, but I effin mind when they try to get some of what's mine. Not that he'd say yes. I just don't like the freakin disrespect.
If we're talking about women that dress provacatively, have careless sex and rack up STDs and pregnancies with such an ease then I'd say they're just irresponsible and probably not too smart in the foresight area. They might have a mental deficiency or self-esteem issues, and looking down on them only worsens it. Just look away, damn. That's what I do.
But as far as women that just enjoy having sex, sure, what ever. But I don't want to listen to the details of your sex life. If my response is "Mhmm... great..." then take the hint. I believe in monogamy, but I don't care what you do and don't want to hear about it. Whatever makes you happy, props for getting laid. Sex is great. I just want a relationship too. It's not everyone's cup of tea.
Now as far as women that go out in public, where kids are watching, wearing their thongs visibly, and their "sexy" tramp stamps showing under their teeny, tiny shirts that just barely cover their nipples and short shorts with camel toe and shit... ew. And don't give me shit for thinking that either. You're the one that decided to go out in public looking like that. We are all judged by our appearance, you're not special. Don't bitch about how you deserve to be treated like a Queen when you dress like a Vietnamese hooker. I treat them with respect, but I have a hard time actually respecting them.
okay, so the answer options are
"great sex toys"
"worthless"
"should die"
"annoying"
"don't care"
where the fuck are positive options or views? I like them, and not as objects. With people you define as sluts you have the best chance of no strings-attached fun from time to time. If things are right. If not, you can still have a nice evening. Some of the friends i value most fall into this category. Now and then, something happens, other than that, we are still great friends and have a nice time.
seriously, a classic WTF poll.
I was actually thinking exactly the same thing as you as I was scrolling through the comments. I'm not going to choose an answer, but I would if there was a "they are people just like me" or an "I don't see a problem with them in the least" I would pick that one.
I hate sluts of BOTH genders. Men are just as slutty as women. I had a ex boyfriend that slept with my ex best friend and every other female at the rennisance faire. I heard he took my best friend behind my back and she slept in his tent. I hate slutty men and i hate slutty women.
Most females are basically sluts inside , most actually think more and worse than most guys. Whether it's your grand mother, 10 yr old sister or daughter.
Even in prim school they're thinking and talking about sex, genitals, all the sex acts [ I'm trying to word it clean here ha ha } far more than the boys , or if you give an 80 yr old a twinkle in the eye she'll be twinkling back and more don't worry about that, or commenting on how handsome someone is or her ears prick up if the word penis comes along , they're looking and noticing everything at 10 even younger and still at 80 and carry hornyness around 24/7 their whole lives I reckon- you just gotta read between the lines and it's all there right in your face.
But I spose the real slut in peoples eyes acts on it ,stands out, the clothes, sleeps around with anyone and everyone. Where as the everyday horny girl won't go that far , it's in her head don't worry about that but she refrains from literally flaunting it and acting on it day in and out and with just anyone.
Females are also just as sexist and labeling if not more than any guy don't worry about that one either , you just gotta open your eyes and ears.
But I like my slut to be my slut , my special slut only , not everyone else's and out there as a slut for the whole world to see and play with , just me.
To me then she's not a slut she's just my horny chick , the other one is though - or somem like that.
I don't like the full on sluts and they're usually as tacky as too , really turns you off, zero class , but sometime middle of the road can be heaps of fun yet still have some self respect and a bit of class about then. Ahhh !
Every women is a slut, cept for your mother and your sister. And if your real lucky your wife isnt either. Though many more men then not would probably disagree with that.
I guess I celebrate women who have the confidence to assert their sexuality. Good for them..despite the insulting lables some would attack them with.
I've never met one. I've only met people who use the word to define other people.
Complicated question. In my honest, heartless opinion, Anyone who feels they need to subjugate themselves to their instincts in order to feel good is repulsive. In my empathetic approach, I feel everyone deserves a chance to be understood and respected.
My opinion on average? I don't value sexual relationships with more than one person at a time, and do not respect "sex just for fun", because sex's original purpose was reproduction. Therefore, you are "pretend reproducing" with numerous people; just doesn't sound clean or respectable, no matter what your excuse for happiness is.
I say this as a female.
The term slut is a term used by people under the power of the patriarchy. It tells women that, unlike men, they are not allowed to fully satisfy their sexuality as they see fit. If you notice, men are never truly shamed for sleeping around. It is considered a part of their nature. This is in denial of the fact that women have a sex drive that is equal or greater to that of men.
It is disgusting that you couldn't give me an option to say that what you refer to as "sluts" are just people like anyone else. Slut shaming is an extremely destructive force that is destroying young girls self esteem and enforce male dominance. And no... I'm not a woman.
Just a committed Soc Major.
Double standards are everywhere and are inevitable, being slutty just offends great dignified love which is much better than having 'casual' sex...
I respect sluts... They're offering pleasure to a rather big presentage of people and all they get in return is being called names :(
I love slutty women. i wish more women are sluts. Having sex with them is great. Sluts are my favorite type of women. I love promiscuity. I would have sex with so many women it is awesome.
They are completely worthless. They have no sense of self-worth, so why should other people think they are worth something?
you all act like you've never heard of a clitoris. Born naturally with a genitalia that has a SOLE FUNCTION for pleasure, with sensitive nerves just for that, and being capable of having multiple orgasms back to back. Why do women even orgasm in the first place? There is no scientific biological function for that. It only serves for sexual satisfaction. Males orgasm for semen ejaculation, but has anyone question why females climax?
Having said and established this, why is it so shocking or disturbing that there are females who just so happen to enjoy the sensations caused by such a sensitive clitoris?
i dont get it. why is everyone gnashing their teeth at this?
Where's the "who cares it's their life they can do whatever the fuck makes them happy" choice?
Obviously the poster hates sluts? Lol I barely believe in the word slut. And I like how it's mainly used on women. A woman can do whatever the hell she wants, I do, and I don't give a shit what people label me. Having sex doesn't make me a slut, in my view at least. Do what makes you happy!
if they want to whats it got to do with you? stop judging people on things that dont concern you, unless they sleep with your boyfriend mind your own business.
Other:
That the women who label them as such are jealous of the attention the girls are getting.
Theyre fun to play at casinos. OH, SLUTS! Theyre fun to play at casinos.
sluts? well, my home state is chock full of em. so it's hard to say since there is such a variety.
You didn't even give me the option of voting for sluts positively. I like you far less than any slut, ever. Sluts are sexual adventurers. If you judge them, you're an idiot. just like most people don't respect porn actors. It's fine if they give you pleasure, but God forbid, you respect them as any human being deserves to be respected.
Hypocrite, much?