come on this girl doesn't sound normal to you either right? It just seems like a weird situation for someone to be in no matter where she is from. It is difficult to judge people via contact over the internet. The things she is telling you might not even be (completely) true, and even then it is a very weird cry for attention.
You probably just like the attention she is giving you, especially since you still see the thing that happened between you and your EX important enough to mention. However, considering your story this cannot possibly lead to anything positive or normal anyway so just let it go FFS..
I don't see where you're going, I mentioned my ex because this person has stuck by me since my ex messed my life up, I don't really "like" the attention she gives me at all, if anything it isn't exactly a good time for her to tell me she feels that way about me, plus I don't really look at her as anymore than a good friend. I don't really think me and her would work anyway so it won't happen. I said I need to think so it softens the blow. Anyway, back on topic, I get where you're coming from thinking it might not all be true however, she seems 100% normal until you talk about the "problems" she has, if anything I think she just wants someone to listen to her but I have no idea what the real problem is, she isn't the type to bullshit I don't think.
Alright I know what you mean, and I guess it actually makes you a good guy that you are bothered by it. I mean, in all honesty between us guys; it is a lot easier to listen to a woman's issues and care if she is sexually attractive right?
So kudos for being a real worried friend for an emotionally unstable girl. I myself have dealt with an unusual woman (it was back in high school though, but still) who got so deep into it at one point she thought the could literally feel when I was in pain.
Anyway I would say that if you feel that you don't feel comfortable keeping in touch with her the best thing to do is to gradually decrease the time spent talking together because she doesn't really seem stable enough to take a direct rejection IMO.
On the other hand if you like her company and your chemistry it isn't at all a bad thing to keep in touch just be sure not to get sucked-in to all the drama.
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come on this girl doesn't sound normal to you either right? It just seems like a weird situation for someone to be in no matter where she is from. It is difficult to judge people via contact over the internet. The things she is telling you might not even be (completely) true, and even then it is a very weird cry for attention.
You probably just like the attention she is giving you, especially since you still see the thing that happened between you and your EX important enough to mention. However, considering your story this cannot possibly lead to anything positive or normal anyway so just let it go FFS..
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I don't see where you're going, I mentioned my ex because this person has stuck by me since my ex messed my life up, I don't really "like" the attention she gives me at all, if anything it isn't exactly a good time for her to tell me she feels that way about me, plus I don't really look at her as anymore than a good friend. I don't really think me and her would work anyway so it won't happen. I said I need to think so it softens the blow. Anyway, back on topic, I get where you're coming from thinking it might not all be true however, she seems 100% normal until you talk about the "problems" she has, if anything I think she just wants someone to listen to her but I have no idea what the real problem is, she isn't the type to bullshit I don't think.
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Alright I know what you mean, and I guess it actually makes you a good guy that you are bothered by it. I mean, in all honesty between us guys; it is a lot easier to listen to a woman's issues and care if she is sexually attractive right?
So kudos for being a real worried friend for an emotionally unstable girl. I myself have dealt with an unusual woman (it was back in high school though, but still) who got so deep into it at one point she thought the could literally feel when I was in pain.
Anyway I would say that if you feel that you don't feel comfortable keeping in touch with her the best thing to do is to gradually decrease the time spent talking together because she doesn't really seem stable enough to take a direct rejection IMO.
On the other hand if you like her company and your chemistry it isn't at all a bad thing to keep in touch just be sure not to get sucked-in to all the drama.
Good luck!