About the porn. There is one thing us ladies must understand about it. The relationship guys have had with porn and their hand was well established way before we came along. It's just something that is pointless to get upset about. It's just an alone activity. Not a big deal.
About the sexlessness, this i could be a bit more complicated. I'm guessing this is more some emotional thing on his part. I'd say just drop the subject with him bcuz you're obviously not going to be able to fix it by talking about it. There might be something bothering him that he can't talk about, it could be that he was sexually abused, it could be a good many things. Don't assume there is something wrong with you. I'd say just try to put the sex out of your head for the time being and just enjoy spending time with him, lounging around the house, watching a movie, going out for a glass of wine, maybe spend some time in the outdoors and absorb nature. It you have some quality time and he's feeling comfortable, he'll likely be the one to bring it up and that's the moment that will work the best to try to get to the bottom of this.
What is the reason my husband is not interested
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About the porn. There is one thing us ladies must understand about it. The relationship guys have had with porn and their hand was well established way before we came along. It's just something that is pointless to get upset about. It's just an alone activity. Not a big deal.
About the sexlessness, this i could be a bit more complicated. I'm guessing this is more some emotional thing on his part. I'd say just drop the subject with him bcuz you're obviously not going to be able to fix it by talking about it. There might be something bothering him that he can't talk about, it could be that he was sexually abused, it could be a good many things. Don't assume there is something wrong with you. I'd say just try to put the sex out of your head for the time being and just enjoy spending time with him, lounging around the house, watching a movie, going out for a glass of wine, maybe spend some time in the outdoors and absorb nature. It you have some quality time and he's feeling comfortable, he'll likely be the one to bring it up and that's the moment that will work the best to try to get to the bottom of this.