The guy might simply have a low sex drive. If you didn't have a lot of sex before you got married, then in all likelihood he's always been that way.
If you didn't 'try' before you tied the knot, you may have entered into a relationship with someone sexually incompatible with you - even if emotionally and personality-wise he fits you like a glove.
I think it's sad (and kind of cruel) you've resorted to:
- Asking him if he is gay to get a reaction out of him, for him to try and prove to you that he's not
- Looking through his phone
- Reading books about 'what men want in bed' to try and provoke him
This ISN'T his fault, and it isn't your fault. It's simple biology. If it is really an issue, unfortunately there isn't a lot you can do. Try marriage counselling, try masturbating more frequently rather than expecting the sexual satisfaction to come from him, and if none of that works you may have to acknowledge you're not right for each other.
What is the reason my husband is not interested
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The guy might simply have a low sex drive. If you didn't have a lot of sex before you got married, then in all likelihood he's always been that way.
If you didn't 'try' before you tied the knot, you may have entered into a relationship with someone sexually incompatible with you - even if emotionally and personality-wise he fits you like a glove.
I think it's sad (and kind of cruel) you've resorted to:
- Asking him if he is gay to get a reaction out of him, for him to try and prove to you that he's not
- Looking through his phone
- Reading books about 'what men want in bed' to try and provoke him
This ISN'T his fault, and it isn't your fault. It's simple biology. If it is really an issue, unfortunately there isn't a lot you can do. Try marriage counselling, try masturbating more frequently rather than expecting the sexual satisfaction to come from him, and if none of that works you may have to acknowledge you're not right for each other.