You say you are always with eachother? That might be partially why. Take some time away from one another, not like a break but just doing other hobbies seperate from eachother so that you both aren't together all the time.
Was he like this before you got married? Is the sex you have kind of boring and/or repetative? If so, try new things. Do you initiate the sex or simply give signals for him to initiate? If you don't, perhaps you should start initiating the sexual activity.
I don't think it's fair when people do this to their partner. I get that sometimes people do not want to have sex, sometimes not for long periods of time and that is ok, however I also think that it is ok for people having to deal with such a partner to leave the relationship, especially if it has happened after marriage.
Not to be rude but gotta ask. If he was not like this previously to marriage could it perhaps be because you have let yourself go physically? I've heard of a few people losing interest in their partners when this happens. If you have let yourself go after marriage or at a time when him not wanting sex started, then that might be the issue and I would recommend gaining the same body you had when he was interested in sex.
The women he looks at on his phone, do they have anything in common with one another such as hairstyle, make up style, and so on? Before anyone says "they should feel attracted to your style, not someone elses!" I just want to say it's not as simple as that, people can't choose what they are attracted to, but I digress. If they have common traits then perhaps you could adopt those same traits which might make him more attracted to you sexually.
If he was like this prior to you two being married, then I can't say anything other than "you picked him".
My bad, I shouldn't of went through a few of the possible reasons as to why this has happened and went wit IIN community's policy of "sympathetic>anything else".
-Pats back-
Dun wury, it all gon b k, it all gon b k.
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You say you are always with eachother? That might be partially why. Take some time away from one another, not like a break but just doing other hobbies seperate from eachother so that you both aren't together all the time.
Was he like this before you got married? Is the sex you have kind of boring and/or repetative? If so, try new things. Do you initiate the sex or simply give signals for him to initiate? If you don't, perhaps you should start initiating the sexual activity.
I don't think it's fair when people do this to their partner. I get that sometimes people do not want to have sex, sometimes not for long periods of time and that is ok, however I also think that it is ok for people having to deal with such a partner to leave the relationship, especially if it has happened after marriage.
Not to be rude but gotta ask. If he was not like this previously to marriage could it perhaps be because you have let yourself go physically? I've heard of a few people losing interest in their partners when this happens. If you have let yourself go after marriage or at a time when him not wanting sex started, then that might be the issue and I would recommend gaining the same body you had when he was interested in sex.
The women he looks at on his phone, do they have anything in common with one another such as hairstyle, make up style, and so on? Before anyone says "they should feel attracted to your style, not someone elses!" I just want to say it's not as simple as that, people can't choose what they are attracted to, but I digress. If they have common traits then perhaps you could adopt those same traits which might make him more attracted to you sexually.
If he was like this prior to you two being married, then I can't say anything other than "you picked him".
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My bad, I shouldn't of went through a few of the possible reasons as to why this has happened and went wit IIN community's policy of "sympathetic>anything else".
-Pats back-
Dun wury, it all gon b k, it all gon b k.
This community. Sheesh.
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Well I thought it was a very helpful comment that offered solutions rather than fake smiles. But hey, fake smiles -are- the answer, I guess.