Do you know if he could be getting "performance anxiety"? If that were the problem it could easily explain the situation. If he's right in saying it's not medical, perhaps it's emotional. Have there been any disturbances in the family, friends, or work?
I know it's hard to get him to talk, and I don't condone going through his phone, but if you could find out what kind of porn he likes watching and why, you could possibly work that in your own bedroom antics.
Some might say roleplay.
Have you tried stopping all efforts and seeing if he'll initiate anything or at least notice that you have stopped trying
What is the reason my husband is not interested
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Do you know if he could be getting "performance anxiety"? If that were the problem it could easily explain the situation. If he's right in saying it's not medical, perhaps it's emotional. Have there been any disturbances in the family, friends, or work?
I know it's hard to get him to talk, and I don't condone going through his phone, but if you could find out what kind of porn he likes watching and why, you could possibly work that in your own bedroom antics.
Some might say roleplay.
Have you tried stopping all efforts and seeing if he'll initiate anything or at least notice that you have stopped trying