People, but men in particular, are pretty bad at interpreting 'signs'. You're taking a lot of meaningless stuff and in your mind warping it into interest in you. Even worse, you're probably taking outright jokes as serious talk. Staring doesn't mean lust either, people stare at funny, weird, trainwrecks, bad fashion (butt-tight pants on men are not exactly fasionable, btw) and hideous stuff too.
Is some of it genuine? Maybe. But get a grip, most of it is not. Most of what you're seeing isn't directed at you, is a joke or is just somebody being playful or nice but has no real interest in you personally. Relax, this doesn't just apply to you, it happens to most people.
What to do? Well...if you are attracted to the girl you think is eyeing you then say hello and treat them like any normal human being. I would AVOID mentioning them giving you signals or looking at your butt because they probably weren't and that comes off as creepy either way. Trust me, every single time a guy has mentioned me 'checking him out' or flirting, he was dead wrong and him just saying that felt gross. Really gross. It's Creeper 101 shit.
A lot of men are bad at reading signs but women to be honest are just as bad. I on the other hand am super good at reading them and I have had that proven many times. Women have even told me how good I am. You were not even there to see what the women have done so you can't say it was meaning less because it actually wasn't. I don't take outright jokes as serious talk. I never said staring becomes lust but for some of women it actually has and like I said you were not there.
Tight jeans on men are not hideous as it depends on what country you live in. Hideous in America sure, but have you seen what men wear in Europe and some other countries. Women hate those super baggy jeans that don't even sit on a man's ass at all, a lot of men think women love them but they really hate them.
There is no need for me to get a grip because I already have one thank you very much. I don't go around thinking about it all the time and am not out of control like you seem to think I am and you would not know how much of it is genuine and how much is directed at me how since you are not here to see it. I never said other men don't get attention from women.
Well to be honest making jokes as never been in my style. I have always been the one to just say "Hi." They were looking at my butt because like I said I am way better than most guys at knowing about this kind of stuff. Even women have been amazed how good I am at knowing. Well then if you are going to argue about creepy then women should keep their eyes to a man's face. Women CAN'T have it both ways!
Like I SAID I don't make stupid jokes I am just a person that talks normally and says hi.
Next time you my question get it RIGHT before you answer.
I did say that it's a people problem that affects most of us. Not sure what you're saying there.
I read your question and I believe you that you believe that you are getting lustfully gawked at but are also in serious denial. See my first paragraph though. We are terribly flawed at discerning the truth.
See your own words "Tight jeans on men are not hideous as it depends on what country you live in. Hideous in America sure". OK, but if a woman is just lusting on you (according to you) but you haven't spoken to her, how do you know she is not American? Or from any other area that finds butt-tight pants ridiculous? It's clearly a hole in your logic.
If you truly believe that you are wetting panties then why even ask? Just go for it. If these women are already primed and soaking wet just waiting for you to approach then it doesn't matter much what you say, right? If you are SO sure and it's been confirmed that you're SO good at this then why are you asking us peons how to merely approach a woman?
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People, but men in particular, are pretty bad at interpreting 'signs'. You're taking a lot of meaningless stuff and in your mind warping it into interest in you. Even worse, you're probably taking outright jokes as serious talk. Staring doesn't mean lust either, people stare at funny, weird, trainwrecks, bad fashion (butt-tight pants on men are not exactly fasionable, btw) and hideous stuff too.
Is some of it genuine? Maybe. But get a grip, most of it is not. Most of what you're seeing isn't directed at you, is a joke or is just somebody being playful or nice but has no real interest in you personally. Relax, this doesn't just apply to you, it happens to most people.
What to do? Well...if you are attracted to the girl you think is eyeing you then say hello and treat them like any normal human being. I would AVOID mentioning them giving you signals or looking at your butt because they probably weren't and that comes off as creepy either way. Trust me, every single time a guy has mentioned me 'checking him out' or flirting, he was dead wrong and him just saying that felt gross. Really gross. It's Creeper 101 shit.
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A lot of men are bad at reading signs but women to be honest are just as bad. I on the other hand am super good at reading them and I have had that proven many times. Women have even told me how good I am. You were not even there to see what the women have done so you can't say it was meaning less because it actually wasn't. I don't take outright jokes as serious talk. I never said staring becomes lust but for some of women it actually has and like I said you were not there.
Tight jeans on men are not hideous as it depends on what country you live in. Hideous in America sure, but have you seen what men wear in Europe and some other countries. Women hate those super baggy jeans that don't even sit on a man's ass at all, a lot of men think women love them but they really hate them.
There is no need for me to get a grip because I already have one thank you very much. I don't go around thinking about it all the time and am not out of control like you seem to think I am and you would not know how much of it is genuine and how much is directed at me how since you are not here to see it. I never said other men don't get attention from women.
Well to be honest making jokes as never been in my style. I have always been the one to just say "Hi." They were looking at my butt because like I said I am way better than most guys at knowing about this kind of stuff. Even women have been amazed how good I am at knowing. Well then if you are going to argue about creepy then women should keep their eyes to a man's face. Women CAN'T have it both ways!
Like I SAID I don't make stupid jokes I am just a person that talks normally and says hi.
Next time you my question get it RIGHT before you answer.
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I did say that it's a people problem that affects most of us. Not sure what you're saying there.
I read your question and I believe you that you believe that you are getting lustfully gawked at but are also in serious denial. See my first paragraph though. We are terribly flawed at discerning the truth.
See your own words "Tight jeans on men are not hideous as it depends on what country you live in. Hideous in America sure". OK, but if a woman is just lusting on you (according to you) but you haven't spoken to her, how do you know she is not American? Or from any other area that finds butt-tight pants ridiculous? It's clearly a hole in your logic.
If you truly believe that you are wetting panties then why even ask? Just go for it. If these women are already primed and soaking wet just waiting for you to approach then it doesn't matter much what you say, right? If you are SO sure and it's been confirmed that you're SO good at this then why are you asking us peons how to merely approach a woman?