That's the thing, people who don't care don't act as if they do. If bitter name-calling and hatefulness is is how you behave in your everyday life, you may want to evaluate why that is, and even look into therapy.
Me? Therapy? No. I don't need therapy lol. And there is nothing to evaluate here. I'm going to say this once again, I don't care about their life experiences. Why should I care? Not only do people's life experiences not have anything to do with me, these are strangers. I don't care what goes on in people's life, especially strangers. You can try to convince me that I care, but I don't and I know that. So you keep trying to tell me I don't care doesn't really matter. Have a nice day.
I would say you do if your reaction to something you "don't care about" is as extreme as some of the comments you've left here.
You obviously do care if your reactions are as extreme as they are. You are not good at pretending not to care at all.
Maybe you shouldn't care, but you obviously do.
If you don't want to hear the experiences, don't post on public forums. It's as simple as that. You don't get to control the feedback you receive. If you don't care, just ignore it and scroll past, no need to leave nasty replies, call people cunts, etc.
I don't need to convince you, because you do care and are desperate to seem as if you don't. It's obvious you have some deep-rooted resentment, or at the very least get off on being rude to people and trying to get a reaction out of them.
You're right about one thing, I do like to pick on people for fun. I don't need to pretend I don't care , because I don't. I'm not desperate to seem as I don't, because I don't. Get that shit in your head. You think you know everything, but you couldn't be any more wrong. There are a couple of reasons I made those replies, but caring is not one of them. Have a nice day.
Keep telling yourself all of that. 🤣 You're swimming in a river in Egypt.
Picking on people for fun shows a huge level of insecurity (which shows you care quite a bit about what others think), as well as mean-spiritedness, and is not something to be proud of. It's something to overcome.
I don't think I know everything, I'm just stating the obvious. 🤣
I'm not insecure, I just think it's fun sometimes. Like I said, I was a bit pissed off at a few people so for fun I said what I said to some of these comments. People think everybody that finds it fun to pick on people are insecure, but that's just not the case. And it's not like I do it all the time, just occasionally. I'm not insecure about myself, or anything, really. People are stuck on this thought that everyone that finds it fun pissing people off, are insecure. While you aren't wrong because a lot of that like picking on others ARE insecure, i'm not one of them. I do think there are people that pick on people just for the fun of it without it having to do with insecurity. And trust me, I will keep telling myself all of that because it's the truth. Also, I became aware that I came off as caring right after I posted those comments, actually. But I do not, and I think i've been a bit more calm when replying to comments, haven't I? have a nice day.
It absolutely does stem from insecurity and overall unhappiness. Again, I pity you. What a miserable way to live.
Secure people don't have to try so hard to convince others that they're not insecure, don't get defensive about being called insecure, and don't need to make hateful comments "just for fun". If you're not doing this because of some sort of misery in your life or just being an obnoxious troll, you have to be one of the most severe cases of a narcissist I've ever seen (which is actually pretty fitting considering you "don't care" about anyone else's opinions and don't want to hear them, yet think of your own as gospel that absolutely needs to be shared with everyone and that must be accepted).
I think it almost always boils down to insecurity, and in the rare cases it doesn't, it's most likely mental illness. I'm not even one who likes to jump to that conclusion, but this is not normal behavior at all, and definitely not the way someone who is content and mentally well behaves.
If that's what it takes to convince yourself, carry on, I guess. 🤷♀️
No, you really haven't. 🤣 FYI, a person who "doesn't care" doesn't care whether they came off as if they cared. 🤣🤣🤣
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Me? Therapy? No. I don't need therapy lol. And there is nothing to evaluate here. I'm going to say this once again, I don't care about their life experiences. Why should I care? Not only do people's life experiences not have anything to do with me, these are strangers. I don't care what goes on in people's life, especially strangers. You can try to convince me that I care, but I don't and I know that. So you keep trying to tell me I don't care doesn't really matter. Have a nice day.
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I would say you do if your reaction to something you "don't care about" is as extreme as some of the comments you've left here.
You obviously do care if your reactions are as extreme as they are. You are not good at pretending not to care at all.
Maybe you shouldn't care, but you obviously do.
If you don't want to hear the experiences, don't post on public forums. It's as simple as that. You don't get to control the feedback you receive. If you don't care, just ignore it and scroll past, no need to leave nasty replies, call people cunts, etc.
I don't need to convince you, because you do care and are desperate to seem as if you don't. It's obvious you have some deep-rooted resentment, or at the very least get off on being rude to people and trying to get a reaction out of them.
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You're right about one thing, I do like to pick on people for fun. I don't need to pretend I don't care , because I don't. I'm not desperate to seem as I don't, because I don't. Get that shit in your head. You think you know everything, but you couldn't be any more wrong. There are a couple of reasons I made those replies, but caring is not one of them. Have a nice day.
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Keep telling yourself all of that. 🤣 You're swimming in a river in Egypt.
Picking on people for fun shows a huge level of insecurity (which shows you care quite a bit about what others think), as well as mean-spiritedness, and is not something to be proud of. It's something to overcome.
I don't think I know everything, I'm just stating the obvious. 🤣
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I'm not insecure, I just think it's fun sometimes. Like I said, I was a bit pissed off at a few people so for fun I said what I said to some of these comments. People think everybody that finds it fun to pick on people are insecure, but that's just not the case. And it's not like I do it all the time, just occasionally. I'm not insecure about myself, or anything, really. People are stuck on this thought that everyone that finds it fun pissing people off, are insecure. While you aren't wrong because a lot of that like picking on others ARE insecure, i'm not one of them. I do think there are people that pick on people just for the fun of it without it having to do with insecurity. And trust me, I will keep telling myself all of that because it's the truth. Also, I became aware that I came off as caring right after I posted those comments, actually. But I do not, and I think i've been a bit more calm when replying to comments, haven't I? have a nice day.
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It absolutely does stem from insecurity and overall unhappiness. Again, I pity you. What a miserable way to live.
Secure people don't have to try so hard to convince others that they're not insecure, don't get defensive about being called insecure, and don't need to make hateful comments "just for fun". If you're not doing this because of some sort of misery in your life or just being an obnoxious troll, you have to be one of the most severe cases of a narcissist I've ever seen (which is actually pretty fitting considering you "don't care" about anyone else's opinions and don't want to hear them, yet think of your own as gospel that absolutely needs to be shared with everyone and that must be accepted).
I think it almost always boils down to insecurity, and in the rare cases it doesn't, it's most likely mental illness. I'm not even one who likes to jump to that conclusion, but this is not normal behavior at all, and definitely not the way someone who is content and mentally well behaves.
If that's what it takes to convince yourself, carry on, I guess. 🤷♀️
No, you really haven't. 🤣 FYI, a person who "doesn't care" doesn't care whether they came off as if they cared. 🤣🤣🤣