There’s no such thing, only sexually and emotionally stunted people who use it as an excuse for not getting over said stuntedness and growing up. Just because you ignore it doesn’t mean it’s not there.
As someone with no sex drive (and I truly don't believe I have any), it's not a matter of ignoring it. It sometimes just isn't there with certain people. I don't feel I've ever had a sex drive, and probably never will. I've been told for years that I'm "just not ready yet", but I'm 25 going on 26, so I think if I'm not ready by now I never will be. I've never felt "turned on" or anything.
The only thing I can think of besides I was born this way, is that I've been on birth control since puberty (for medical reasons), and I'd be in a lot of pain if I got off of it, so I think if that is what is causing it, it's a fair tradeoff. A lot of the people I've talked to seem to think this is a possibility, but I'm not sure and it doesn't really bother me either way.
So the girl i'm into does masterbate. But from what i gather it is more to reading smut then pornographic material.
We have started to cuddle and last night we slept in the same bed. But when i started to rub her arm and push her sleeve up the line was drawn, over the clothes only.
Stomach, back, arms legs hair were all allowed to be touched and rubbed as long as it was over the clothes.
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There’s no such thing, only sexually and emotionally stunted people who use it as an excuse for not getting over said stuntedness and growing up. Just because you ignore it doesn’t mean it’s not there.
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As someone with no sex drive (and I truly don't believe I have any), it's not a matter of ignoring it. It sometimes just isn't there with certain people. I don't feel I've ever had a sex drive, and probably never will. I've been told for years that I'm "just not ready yet", but I'm 25 going on 26, so I think if I'm not ready by now I never will be. I've never felt "turned on" or anything.
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It might be a stupid question but did you ever masturbate? Because I have a hard time believing a person hasn’t at 26 years.
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Not that I can remember. Never really saw a reason to.
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That weeeeird man.
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I know, lol. It's just... not there.
The only thing I can think of besides I was born this way, is that I've been on birth control since puberty (for medical reasons), and I'd be in a lot of pain if I got off of it, so I think if that is what is causing it, it's a fair tradeoff. A lot of the people I've talked to seem to think this is a possibility, but I'm not sure and it doesn't really bother me either way.
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So the girl i'm into does masterbate. But from what i gather it is more to reading smut then pornographic material.
We have started to cuddle and last night we slept in the same bed. But when i started to rub her arm and push her sleeve up the line was drawn, over the clothes only.
Stomach, back, arms legs hair were all allowed to be touched and rubbed as long as it was over the clothes.
Hmmm well I suppose if you’ve always been like that it wouldn’t bother you so much