Don't you want to meet this other sibling of yours? Try it out, for one, I have a half sister that lives in Europe whereas I live in Brazil. I met her when she was little but I would really like to build bonds with her since, heck, she is my little sis. Try it out man. Look into it, you might just find a good friend. who knows until you try?
He's my father's son, not my mother's. I have no contact with my father (and consequently, my younger half sister). It hurts that I missed her childhood but there is nothing I can do about it. My father has never even admitted to the existance of my older half brother when we were in contact.
To be perfectly honest, my primary concern regarding my older half brother is that I don't unknowingly meet and date him.
Valid point. Parents usually have ways of remaining in contact or know waays of doing so, even if it is years after they don't speak due to divorce or whatnot. Ask your mom, she should for sure know about how to get in touch with your dad, and then, find out about your older bro. Unless he lives in the same radius as your hangout areas there shouldn't be a big chance of you accidently dating him, and if there is, it shouldn't be difficult to find him. Chin up! :)
Thanks for your words, but I'm not in contact with my father because he is scum. His whole side of the family are like him. I spent my whole life being the adult in that relationship and I am not interested anymore. If he decides to final mature and contact me, fine, but I am not going to put myself through the pain of it again.
Knowing my older brother would be nice, but I have zero time or energy for it. I barely have time for the family I know and want to spend time with.
What If your bro/sis is really, really just your 1/2 bro/sis?
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Don't you want to meet this other sibling of yours? Try it out, for one, I have a half sister that lives in Europe whereas I live in Brazil. I met her when she was little but I would really like to build bonds with her since, heck, she is my little sis. Try it out man. Look into it, you might just find a good friend. who knows until you try?
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He's my father's son, not my mother's. I have no contact with my father (and consequently, my younger half sister). It hurts that I missed her childhood but there is nothing I can do about it. My father has never even admitted to the existance of my older half brother when we were in contact.
To be perfectly honest, my primary concern regarding my older half brother is that I don't unknowingly meet and date him.
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Valid point. Parents usually have ways of remaining in contact or know waays of doing so, even if it is years after they don't speak due to divorce or whatnot. Ask your mom, she should for sure know about how to get in touch with your dad, and then, find out about your older bro. Unless he lives in the same radius as your hangout areas there shouldn't be a big chance of you accidently dating him, and if there is, it shouldn't be difficult to find him. Chin up! :)
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Thanks for your words, but I'm not in contact with my father because he is scum. His whole side of the family are like him. I spent my whole life being the adult in that relationship and I am not interested anymore. If he decides to final mature and contact me, fine, but I am not going to put myself through the pain of it again.
Knowing my older brother would be nice, but I have zero time or energy for it. I barely have time for the family I know and want to spend time with.
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Know what you mean. Cheers! Keep on keeping on.