I'm sorry that it didn't work out for you. But I do think it's normal to miss somebody after you were together for 2 years. And its certainly normal that you still miss him right now. I mean, you said you guys broke it off a week ago. Of course you aren't over him yet.
However, you said you lost weight? Don't let this break up go to your head too much. It's gonna hurt right now, but soon you're gonna get past this, and you'll look back & think, "Geez, he wasn't that great after all.". If you wallow in your pain, you'll end up losing good opportunity's to have a great relationship with someone new. Remember that even though you have just ended a two yr relationship, it does not mean that this is the end completely. It's now, just a new beginning.
There is a reason for everything, and I'm sure their's a good reason why you two couldn't work it out. It just wasn't meant to be. And yeah, I know. Nobody likes to hear those words. I've heard them before as well. But the best thing for you to do right now is to let go. You'll somebody much better.
I think you should try to do thing's that will get your mind off of him. Maybe go out with your friends, or watch a funny movie that has NOTHING to do with love/romance, treat yourself to something special at the mall, or sit down and talk with someone about how you're feeling(maybe a parent, older sibling/friend). Sometimes getting thing's off our chests helps a lot better. I feel like the only way you can truly move on, is when you come to fully accept that it is, what it is. You can't get yourself sick over it. There are so many great guys out there. And who knows? Maybe when you're finally over him, you've moved on, and you're with someone else, he might come running back.
"If you love something let it go, if it comes back to you its yours, if it doesn't, it never was, and its not meant to be."
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I'm sorry that it didn't work out for you. But I do think it's normal to miss somebody after you were together for 2 years. And its certainly normal that you still miss him right now. I mean, you said you guys broke it off a week ago. Of course you aren't over him yet.
However, you said you lost weight? Don't let this break up go to your head too much. It's gonna hurt right now, but soon you're gonna get past this, and you'll look back & think, "Geez, he wasn't that great after all.". If you wallow in your pain, you'll end up losing good opportunity's to have a great relationship with someone new. Remember that even though you have just ended a two yr relationship, it does not mean that this is the end completely. It's now, just a new beginning.
There is a reason for everything, and I'm sure their's a good reason why you two couldn't work it out. It just wasn't meant to be. And yeah, I know. Nobody likes to hear those words. I've heard them before as well. But the best thing for you to do right now is to let go. You'll somebody much better.
I think you should try to do thing's that will get your mind off of him. Maybe go out with your friends, or watch a funny movie that has NOTHING to do with love/romance, treat yourself to something special at the mall, or sit down and talk with someone about how you're feeling(maybe a parent, older sibling/friend). Sometimes getting thing's off our chests helps a lot better. I feel like the only way you can truly move on, is when you come to fully accept that it is, what it is. You can't get yourself sick over it. There are so many great guys out there. And who knows? Maybe when you're finally over him, you've moved on, and you're with someone else, he might come running back.
"If you love something let it go, if it comes back to you its yours, if it doesn't, it never was, and its not meant to be."
Good luck sweetheart...