Be yourself and allow yourself time to work out how you really feel. Also, I reckon a lot of men are actually more 'emotional' but society kind of represses it, which is sad. Whilst he doesn't cry at a Pampers advert (like I sometimes do), my bf is more 'emotional' and I love that about him. I couldn't be with one of those guys who was always putting on a bravado and pretending like nothing touches them. Oh, he also sits with his legs crossed sometimes and sometimes wears eyeliner. I am aware some people would think that made him a bit feminine, but to me these invisible rules are just made up by scared people who want to keep some 'order' in society, so there's 'rules' for men and women. Some may also assume he's gay just based on those small behaviours (small minded people?) but trust me, he likes women lol. Another quick example of the feminine/masculine thing - when I had my hair cut really short I got lesbian 'jokes'. Whatever (not that have a problem with gay people at all, just to be clear). Anyway, you get my gist. I hope! Be true to yourself. ; )
Thanks for the advice. ^^ I understand that men are more emotional than society lets on, and I'm sorry for that misconception. I'm just speaking from a biological standpoint. I'll try my best to be myself, once I get enough confidence to do so.
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Be yourself and allow yourself time to work out how you really feel. Also, I reckon a lot of men are actually more 'emotional' but society kind of represses it, which is sad. Whilst he doesn't cry at a Pampers advert (like I sometimes do), my bf is more 'emotional' and I love that about him. I couldn't be with one of those guys who was always putting on a bravado and pretending like nothing touches them. Oh, he also sits with his legs crossed sometimes and sometimes wears eyeliner. I am aware some people would think that made him a bit feminine, but to me these invisible rules are just made up by scared people who want to keep some 'order' in society, so there's 'rules' for men and women. Some may also assume he's gay just based on those small behaviours (small minded people?) but trust me, he likes women lol. Another quick example of the feminine/masculine thing - when I had my hair cut really short I got lesbian 'jokes'. Whatever (not that have a problem with gay people at all, just to be clear). Anyway, you get my gist. I hope! Be true to yourself. ; )
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Thanks for the advice. ^^ I understand that men are more emotional than society lets on, and I'm sorry for that misconception. I'm just speaking from a biological standpoint. I'll try my best to be myself, once I get enough confidence to do so.