I've dated 2 guys like that. I would say definietely narcissistic or just very insecure behaviour. Narcissists are deeply insecure though, so possibly both. They would both pull the victim card when it was THEM who had hurt ME which they would admit to as there was obvious proof then they'd immadiately get me to feel sorry for them by either calling themselves names and moping, or try to gaslight me into thinking I somehow deserved it and that they can't help how they act when they're feeling like shit. Like what the fuck, if you're so mentally damaged that you can't control impulses like hurting people close to you then get help don't use it as a way to get away with anything you want... Well to put it short that is toxic, manipulative behaviour. Narcissists can't love another person but they like to use them as they're often afraid of being alone with their messed up minds.
My gf was in love with w narcassist before me and he abused her emotionally in the end he was married yet she speak to and treat me and claim I abusive emotionally and would rather get physically abused by her baby father than by me emotionally wtf is it with women liking the wrong guys then abusing the right guys while claiming they being abused i ask you cause you said you dated 2 narcassist so i figured any insight you ha e, may be that useful I'm in bklyn ny where you from
what does this mean if my bf does this?
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I've dated 2 guys like that. I would say definietely narcissistic or just very insecure behaviour. Narcissists are deeply insecure though, so possibly both. They would both pull the victim card when it was THEM who had hurt ME which they would admit to as there was obvious proof then they'd immadiately get me to feel sorry for them by either calling themselves names and moping, or try to gaslight me into thinking I somehow deserved it and that they can't help how they act when they're feeling like shit. Like what the fuck, if you're so mentally damaged that you can't control impulses like hurting people close to you then get help don't use it as a way to get away with anything you want... Well to put it short that is toxic, manipulative behaviour. Narcissists can't love another person but they like to use them as they're often afraid of being alone with their messed up minds.
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My gf was in love with w narcassist before me and he abused her emotionally in the end he was married yet she speak to and treat me and claim I abusive emotionally and would rather get physically abused by her baby father than by me emotionally wtf is it with women liking the wrong guys then abusing the right guys while claiming they being abused i ask you cause you said you dated 2 narcassist so i figured any insight you ha e, may be that useful I'm in bklyn ny where you from